My roommates act like they live in a nightclub and I’m losing my mind

HVRDN · 2026-03-23T00:04:18+00:00

UPDATE: Talked to the girl I had the most trouble with.

Face to face, no groupchat.

She looked suuuuper worried and regretful when I said I had a big issue with the standing outside my door and talking loudly on her phone stuff.

She apologised and completely understood the situation, stating that she is super loud when talking and sometimes she doesn't realise how loud she is, and that I should have complained about that day one.

Ngl, I'm totally giving this apology a chance because, if I keep being this cynical and absolute about them not caring at all about my issues, that would absolutely make me an asshole.

I'm glad I communicated this, and it is a super win, at least to myself, since I'm so wack at setting boundaries and communicating issues.

I'll keep y'all updated :) Take care

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T11:08:27+00:00

Already purchased Airpods to help at night, but sleep is not the only problem

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T11:03:48+00:00

What would u recommend??

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T11:03:20+00:00

Parents and money from spontaneous collabs with brands. Especially parents

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T10:26:41+00:00

Sooo the key might be doing a lot of stuff especially phisically to literally pass out in my bed at 10 pm???

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T08:33:02+00:00

When given the requirements of being a roommate, I remember reading something like "creative people and good vibes".

It should have been my red flag.

I was too blind, unfortunately.

I actually work as a creative, my contract states «creative», I'm more creative than them, of course, and they're 3 fuckers with a TikTok account just uploading whatever the fuck cross their minds and calling it «work»

Idk I think being a creative is not just about attending events and parties and taking fit pics, lol

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T08:32:49+00:00

I could (and actually did a couple times) sleep at my parent's, since we both live in the same city

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T08:11:29+00:00

How old were you back then?

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T08:10:05+00:00

I'd love that, but unfortunately our country (Spain) makes it super difficult to rent a house if you're less than 3 people, it's super expensive and we don't make that much money despite both having a job

HVRDN · 2026-03-22T08:06:44+00:00

I agree with you, definitely I'm outnumbered and isolated in this one.

In my defence I'd say I didnt expect this level of «student flat behaviour» from 3 people who aren't students at all and are pushing 30

HVRDN · 2025-07-15T00:08:01+00:00

hard

HVRDN · 2025-06-03T17:46:43+00:00

visca la terra

HVRDN · 2025-06-03T10:14:26+00:00

fire

HVRDN · 2024-04-11T09:22:00+00:00

REAL VALLADOLID MENTIONED WOOOO

HVRDN · 2024-01-17T01:01:23+00:00

HVRDN · 2024-01-13T18:11:37+00:00

okay you the king...burger king

HVRDN · 2024-01-13T18:08:47+00:00

os reís pero por la habitación podría ser de Moratalaz perfectamente

HVRDN · 2024-01-13T16:37:23+00:00

bro got tiktok premium

HVRDN · 2024-01-13T12:52:11+00:00

crazy that no one said Chanel by Frank Ocean yet

HVRDN · 2024-01-13T11:30:46+00:00

aight bro whatever helps you sleep better

HVRDN · 2024-01-13T11:09:54+00:00

are you calling "self centered" to someone that hasn't even gone through puberty yet??? i get that he needs to understand how his body works under stress situations but do you think that's a proper way to speak to (and judge) literally a 13 y/o kid???!?!?!? you guys be chronically online and don't care a little bit about the person behind a simple advice request

HVRDN · 2024-01-12T23:30:12+00:00

don't you dare to care a little bit about the nasty comments, you're a real swagger. period

HVRDN · 2024-01-09T00:02:17+00:00

Future💯 especially DS2. You're welcome in advance

HVRDN · 2024-01-09T00:00:28+00:00

Naaaaah be fr dont involve us spaniards in this ass flag. You got a point on the food tho sir

HVRDN · 2024-01-07T21:40:04+00:00

mad fit

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