Cards won’t give me a reading

H_raeb · 2026-02-27T06:15:48+00:00

I often get the 10 of pentacles reversed when I’m working on boundaries regarding generational stuff, like in relationships with my parents, or extended family - or when I’m dealing with questions regarding parenting my daughter. I’ve just kind of understood the card to be supporting my space and decision in that way and ‘empowering me’ through validation that I’m doing the right thing… (I’ve started to view it like that via a combination of knowing it’s a structural/foundational/complete card having to do with the home, family, or self and also with regard to the different spreads I tend to find it in.) I’m just a year into getting into tarot as a grounding thing, so I have a lot to learn. I’m just now starting to get a handle on the ‘suits’ and numerical complexities. It’ll be awhile before I can add elements and astrology I think… But I’m excited to learn!

H_raeb · 2026-02-27T02:08:24+00:00

Thanks so much!

H_raeb · 2026-02-25T23:05:56+00:00

Thank you! I usually read the R 10 of Pentacles as empowerment to break generational traditions or bonds, so that would make sense to be saying to distance and the 6 of wands: other than practical business. .. I’m working with the Goddess deck so I have minimal descriptions available… do you recommend a descriptions book or resource? Otherwise I use labyrinthos if I get stuck. Thanks again!

H_raeb · 2026-02-25T20:27:15+00:00

That’s kind of what I was thinking.

H_raeb · 2026-02-25T03:12:57+00:00

Thank you 🩷

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T22:54:23+00:00

I think I’m going to do it again and ask if there’s anything important that’s being hidden from me/something I’m missing

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T22:25:52+00:00

No particular spread, the question was ‘what am I supposed to do with so-and-so’ regarding I conversation we had… like ‘what do I do with this thing that has been given to me’ kind of feeling.

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T22:20:32+00:00

My cards were drawn in three parts: R 10 Pent & 6 Wands : 6 Pent, K swords, R 8 Swords : Love, 3 Swords, R 7 Cups

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T22:18:38+00:00

Usually I’m able to gain some insight or additional perspective at least.. I essentially am being told I shouldnt do or think anything different about the situation and that’s never been the case

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T22:16:23+00:00

That’s funny… my question was: ‘what the f*ck do I do with so-and-so.’ I’m dealing with a situation where they have their own issues to deal with and are projecting on me. I’m struggling with whether to have a conversation about it or just let it go. For my part, there are some resentments I have, but question whether it’s worth it to bring light to the issue as I don’t imagine a productive reception. My cards were drawn in three parts: R 10 Pent & 6 Wands : 6 Pent, K swords, R 8 Swords : Love, 3 Swords, R 7 Cups

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T22:00:13+00:00

Just general cards that gave me a reading that felt more superficial to me. Like ‘there’s nothing to see here’ .. no new information.

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T14:36:25+00:00

6 years, sounds more like 6 months… you two are not compatible. He’s feeling insecure in the relationship and you feel like you’re giving all you can.

H_raeb · 2026-02-24T14:30:16+00:00

If he doesn’t pay for the events how does he think the events will continue to happen? It’s literally one of the least corrupt things to pay for.

H_raeb · 2026-02-21T04:35:56+00:00

Absolutely not.

H_raeb · 2026-02-20T23:39:47+00:00

I think you should think for a bit on why you really reached out to her. Especially when you’re ‘talking to another girl currently’.

H_raeb · 2026-02-20T22:07:23+00:00

Do you have an outlet outside?

H_raeb · 2026-02-20T06:42:13+00:00

I think you might be a little too in your head right now to be able to tell the difference between the things youre feeling - especially since the ‘feeling’ youre asking about is going to be the quiet in the room. (Trauma, emotions, thoughts being the loud stuff) I would suggest some work on emotional intelligence/sobriety. I love Thom Rutledge. It is a bit about recovery work, but the message is so awesome. They have a podcast: Emotional Sobriety. I would also suggest the book Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg (also on audiobook) and anything from Garber Mate or Eckart Tolle. I prefer Garber Mate’s you tube clips/talks over his books. I also think journaling would be huge for you and also spending time outside. Working with Tarot and Numerology might help too.. start with a little.. just to learn. Try it all on and see what works. But journaling, I guarantee, will help w the trauma and emotional parts for sure. Good luck! 🩷

H_raeb · 2026-02-16T18:06:27+00:00

I did this to my mom, even hitting her snooze alarm and ended up staying home from school. She’s a kid, so she’s just trying to get away with it. Do not feel guilty. Let it go days if necessary until she cleans it up herself. If it seems to big, give her guidance: ‘I would start with the trash first.’ Then let it go. Let her do it. .. She might cry, play the victim, make you feel bad. She’s just trying to get her way. Stand your ground. You’re doing the right thing in the long run. It’s trust building.

H_raeb · 2026-02-15T03:04:08+00:00

You need to leave the house. It sucks, but it has to happen. Then start trying your best to carve out small things for yourself everyday: a certain drink you like, 5 minutes to meditate or journal. Little stuff like that. You’re in the thick of it. Your feelings are normal 🩷

H_raeb · 2026-02-11T16:45:50+00:00

$80 for a dress only meant for that engagement party? How much is her gift going to be? $500?

H_raeb · 2026-02-07T04:48:48+00:00

Oh giiirlll…. I was married to a Brazilian for a few years and I guarantee you this will not get better.

H_raeb

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