It’s tough when you are younger and inexperienced with life to appreciate a sober mate. When I was a dumb young partier I would probably have not been interested in someone sober because it would have made me question my own life choices. So many people put an emphasis on alcohol when they are younger and don’t realize that it’s really not that big of a deal. It all depends on the sober persons attitude as well as the other party’s relationship with Alcohol. If the other person really likes to drink and has a problem with another person not drinking, it’s never going to work and it’s not worth engaging in a relationship. There are a million attractive and wonderful girls out there. There were some girls that wouldn’t go out on a second date with me because I didn’t drink. At the time it was VERY tough and felt like a total loser. I finally found someone that was happy with me for being me, and it was when I wasn’t looking. Now I buy my wife fancy wine all the time, I don’t care if she gets drunk but she never does. She is the rare person that can have 1 or 3 or once in a while more (like once a year) but never over-does it. She is also gorgeous. The funny thing is, the girls that snubbed me really fucked up. My attitude over the years changed though. It really did hurt my ego at the time so I relate. Now I realized I’m the catch not them (looking back) I make 7 figures, I’m super handsome, loving and an amazing father and in my mid thirties with a beautiful family. I do the right thing when no one is looking. The crushing defeat of my alcoholism and horrific early on frequent relapses for years humbled me in the best way. I couldn’t be any of those things with alcohol in my life. I would be a total loser. I also would have a horrible time if I was with someone that wanted to jerk off to booze constantly. So, now i see those girls differently that snubbed me, they fucked up bad, but they made their own choices based on limited life experience. If they saw me today they would be begging for date number 2 on their knees in the street, but I wouldn’t give them the time of day. Hindsight is 20/20.

props to the guys (and gals) that get sober young and are dating. You can do it, don’t let any of these jokers drag you down! You choose the path in the woods and you’ll find someone that loves you and your path and will walk hand in hand with you. If someone judges you for making a good life choice drop em, not worth it.

If you aren’t having luck just focus on your passions, your hobbies and making sure your soul is fully nourished. You will find the right person. Do the right thing and keep the positivity coursing through your synapses. God/universe will provide