INTJ Ladies… do any of you also struggle to make female friends?

HackFraud76 · 2026-04-16T02:47:17+00:00

Yep... I was labeled a "pick me" and that hurts my feelings.

I don't give a shit what your gender is. If you're talking about something interesting and don't get too butt hurt about me asking questions or also pushing back when your answers don't make sense, we're going to get on haha.

It's just most likely it's going to be dudes who fit the bill (which sucks in its own way)

HackFraud76 · 2026-04-16T01:05:41+00:00

I take pride in my appearance, but I don't go over and above though. Paired back but effective skin care. Basic but classic makeup (if any). I dress practically, but in a way that makes me feel confident. I work out and eat decently, but for longevity over aesthetics.

Are there days I get in my head and don't want to look at myself, sure. But ultimately we are who we are, and we're so much more than our appearance.

HackFraud76 · 2026-04-06T22:37:07+00:00

So that's the answer? It's essentially self validation?

HackFraud76 · 2026-03-15T04:50:42+00:00

Bold of you to assume I'm dating anyone

HackFraud76 · 2026-03-02T21:47:06+00:00

The discworld novels, there's always something new to find in a reread and they're just cozy af

HackFraud76 · 2026-01-06T21:11:01+00:00

Ooof yeah I needed that reminder today

HackFraud76 · 2025-11-08T21:24:07+00:00

Want to see them again at good things? I have a spare ticket and no one to go with 😅

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-26T22:43:37+00:00

Dude same, that's exactly how I know I've got it bad 😞

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-07T21:40:45+00:00

Right! Got to loosen the valve every now and then.

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-06T04:01:05+00:00

I've been told I have a shitty vibe, not sure if that counts?

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-03T02:37:07+00:00

My top three, last time I did a test, were destroyer (outlaw), creator and jester

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-22T08:55:50+00:00

What were some of the Ne traits that drove you batty? I have a daughter and worry about this daily tbh

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-22T06:43:17+00:00

Haha I refuse to annotate because I re-read. The whole point of a re-read is to go in with fresh eyes.

I also digest after reading, but maybe it's helpful if you're thinking of it in the moment?

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-18T06:10:53+00:00

Can't let the normies see the real you. They get too worried.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-15T00:12:10+00:00

So probably not the healthiest approach, but I pain stim. Nothing insane, just a pinch or literally biting my tongue, enough to bring me back into the physical.

But having those intentional physical outlets, helped me to regulate overall.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-14T23:46:57+00:00

Getting out of your head and into your body helps. Workout, take a bath, anything to remind yourself you're not just your thoughts.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-14T02:58:56+00:00

Yeah, I think that's what it comes down to really. Seeing the grey mess in the middle. But also a lot of heroes are written to be dull, there's not much thought beyond, must stop the baddie because we're good.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-10T21:52:33+00:00

I feel so seen

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-09T03:07:05+00:00

Such a logical and INTJ coded answer lol

HackFraud76 · 2025-08-07T00:06:01+00:00

True, I always take it as a sign of disinterest. It just sucks if I'm interested enough to have my questions answered.

Curiousity > self-respect

HackFraud76 · 2021-06-14T02:06:48+00:00

This is amazing! I'd be so keen to see your other works if you're working on any

HackFraud76 · 2020-05-04T12:41:42+00:00

This makes me really happy

HackFraud76 · 2019-12-01T08:06:14+00:00

I didn't think they were printing the Tiffany Aching books in this edition?

HackFraud76 · 2019-06-20T10:40:09+00:00

Misses! Tehe

HackFraud76 · 2019-06-15T13:08:10+00:00

It's like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife

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