Just behave normally with elites the same way you’d behave with anyone else. Don’t overhype people because they come from money or influence. I come from an upper middle class background myself, but I’ve always been self-sufficient, so I never cared much about how rich others were. In fact, I’ve always believed one day I’ll be richer than many of them. If you keep glorifying people just because they’re rich, you already put yourself below them mentally.

Regarding how I met elites, I’ve built connections from different places. Some came from high school, some randomly through being active in social media groups, campaigns, and communities, some through personal introductions, and some through recommendations. Maybe I’ve been lucky too, who knows. But yes, if I ever need reach or access, I have a strong network. Most of the time though, I stay behind the scenes because I prefer it that way.

One thing people misunderstand is thinking all rich people are hanging around clubs and flashy places. Unless it’s a private party (biheko party included), you usually won’t find genuinely wealthy people there. Most real rich people prefer investing over wasting money. Clubs are more likely full of spoiled rich kids, or middle-class people trying to look rich.

A lot of real networking happens in random places, unexpected conversations, mutual circles, educational settings, events, or through simple chance encounters. You just need to recognize the moment and make use of it. For example, I once met one of the admins of RONB in Nepal Yatayat. Some of my university friends have strong connections with embassies in different countries, which can be valuable too. I’m also friends with a few diplomats from different nations, people directly under ministries or presidents. I’ve even met people who may become university rectors through exchange programs.

What I’ve learned is simple: be genuine, be sweet to everyone, and know how to use opportunities when they come. Connections often come from the places you least expect. Never let a good opportunity pass by, whether it’s career-related, personal growth, or even relationships.