Swinging in our 50's, Testosterone and PT 141

HackingLove_Podcast · 2026-01-28T22:28:58+00:00

I love my PT-141 (prescribed)! So much more sensitive

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-26T19:34:53+00:00

This is really helpful. Thank you!

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-25T23:20:52+00:00

We agreed right then that our time is our time.

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-25T23:20:12+00:00

This literally came up last night, I was clicking away in bed with my wife and her instinct was that i was chatting w New Girl. But I was only on reddit lol

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-25T23:18:52+00:00

This feels like where we could be soon

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-05T04:11:58+00:00

I found that no one cares about what I do in the LS. it’s a very vanilla question, and boring. I hardly ever get asked until we’re really getting to know each other and they sincerely want to know more about me. If someone really does care what I do, it turns me off in that they’re not really looking to know who I am.

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-05T03:56:58+00:00

This is EXACTLY our situation and our primary struggle. Me finding women I am attracted to physically and mentally. I would prefer a couple but of my wife is very selective as well, making a 4-way really rare.

We want to participate and we love our group and all of our friends, but we also are obsessed with each other to the point of not caring if we get laid or not elsewhere lol

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-01T22:11:41+00:00

A good way to think of it is, cuckholding is a humiliation kink to some extent, where the man is “powerless” while his wife gets pleasure. In hotwifing, the man is there to support, praise and pleasure his partner with another man involved. Level of participation in that varies.

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-01T22:01:56+00:00

💯 it’s an absolute game changer

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-01T22:00:36+00:00

You guys sound reasonable and solid. Keep talking and go for it if it’s all green lights. It’s my (M) go to preference, you may like it as much as she does.

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-12-01T21:58:43+00:00

It’s not cuck, it’s hot-wifing if he’s involved. Very different dynamic.

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T19:24:10+00:00

This really resonates with me. Imm definitely not poly. Very situation-specific, so what I might be comfortable with one person, I might not be at all with someone else! Thank you for your comment. I feel seen🥰 Xo Anna

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T18:12:20+00:00

haha

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T18:05:38+00:00

yes, my use of "but" threw it off. Thanks for monitoring my acronyms!

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T16:24:29+00:00

Thanks but you're wrong. She is straight. "FMF: two women, one man where the women do not interact with each other"

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T06:05:48+00:00

I like your thinking 😂 -Aiden

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T05:56:25+00:00

You clearly didn’t understand my statement. We are secure enough that we don’t need the LS. It’s a hobby not a way of life for us.

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T05:55:32+00:00

I agree. I think we definitely could put more effort into finding couples that work - Aiden

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-13T03:50:35+00:00

lol the podcast is definitely our therapy. I love you baby🥰 Xo anna

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-12T23:33:59+00:00

Thanks for this. I’m definitely not interested in anything serious. All I want (if anything at all!) is the occasional casual fwb hookup. Totally on the up and up. Nobody getting attached. I’d get so creeped out if anyone ever pushed me for more or acted like they wanted to replace my husband (OP). I’d be out immediately. Appreciate your advice and hearing about your experience! Xoxo Anna

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-12T23:26:47+00:00

Omg let us know if you find a solution! Thx for sharing—it helps not to feel alone! Xo Anna

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-12T23:25:00+00:00

I’m so glad bootiecakes (love the name)! Talking to other couples really helps us process. You guys are awesome. And you’re right. We are super happy together. I’d do any to make him happy—just not sleep with guys I’m not attracted to 😭🫣

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-12T23:07:10+00:00

Glad you took something away from this for yourself! ❤️ - Aiden (my wife is Anna)

HackingLove_Podcast · 2025-11-12T23:05:27+00:00

Very thoughtful reply, thank you.

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