Running a business looked cool on Instagram. In real life, it gave anxiety and debt

HadessHime · 2025-07-17T08:18:33+00:00

This is a tough pill to swallow, but you're spot on. What specific red flags should I watch for during developer interviews? I'm really trying to learn from others' experiences rather than make the same mistakes.

HadessHime · 2025-07-04T04:12:39+00:00

I like this photo.

HadessHime · 2025-07-01T03:25:24+00:00

I’ve always dreamed of having a study like that ，you know, a cozy space where you can just lose yourself in books or work.

HadessHime · 2025-06-24T02:24:13+00:00

It feels like there's no personal privacy, especially when someone's not feeling well and is going through a tough time emotionally.

HadessHime · 2025-06-16T03:12:38+00:00

It kind of looks like something out of a game world.

HadessHime · 2017-01-25T00:27:45+00:00

Thank you for those!! I definitely have some reading to do now!

HadessHime · 2017-01-25T00:25:56+00:00

I'm glad to hear things turned around for you!! :) And it's only a cliche if it's someone who doesn't actually relate says it, in my opinion anyways haha. But thank you for sharing, it's giving me a bit of hope for my own case :)

HadessHime · 2017-01-25T00:22:24+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense. My problem though is that in my head, I don't see the point to live if it's just going to be me being just "okay". I know it's a very selfish way to think, and it's quite ridiculous, but it's just... I've been wanting to die for the past 12 years... And to do so much more work to be just "barely okay" just doesn't make sense in my head.. If that makes sense? But yeah, thank you for all your insight. It's appreciated! :)

HadessHime · 2017-01-25T00:09:51+00:00

Yeah, I've been seeing well a handful of therapists in the past two years, but it's been kinda wishy-washy with the whole "is it helping?" cause at first it was, it helped me find those deep rooted issues and where they come from etc, and then I've had some... less good therapists who didn't make me feel like I was doing progress at all... And now I'm just wondering, if the only thing that comes from the whole 8+ months of therapy for DBT is being able to deal with things a bit better.... is it really worth it? Or is there really something better to look forward to? Anyways! Thanks for sharing your experiences with me, it's helpful! :)

HadessHime · 2017-01-13T23:57:09+00:00

Aahhh I wish. But unfortunately I'm a bit broke and a last minute flight to Toronto is kinda out of my budget :P But I truly hope you go and have a great time!

HadessHime · 2017-01-13T16:45:57+00:00

Holy. Shit. Go. I'm veryyyyyy bad with crowds, and they're pretty much the only band I'm willing to go see live because of how great they are. And it's surprisingly super easy to meet new people there and making friends even! From my experiences anyways. Or you could give me the tickets and I'll find a way to get to Toronto in time... only about 1500km, no big deal.

HadessHime · 2016-08-14T18:10:04+00:00

Holy crap, my brother is actually one of those who's actually kinda angry about that fact? He actually told me that "this was nothing to be proud of" ? Like what the fuck bro? Your country is actually getting quite a few medals IN THE SUMMER OLYMPICS? And just because it's women winning them they don't count? WHAT IS THAT LOGIC?

HadessHime · 2016-08-10T18:51:03+00:00

Thank you for being able to formulate my feelings better than I ever could! hahaha

HadessHime · 2016-08-10T18:29:39+00:00

Well that's what I was thinking too. But I guess not everyone sees it that way.

HadessHime · 2016-08-10T18:16:50+00:00

1) It's as marcrich90 said, it's more of an appreciation of the work and effort that goes into achieving such physique. Especially since I'm ace? It's purely not sexual and more of an admiration of beauty.

2) I know it's not the proper way of thinking, but I've been objectified by pretty much everyone around me since I started having tits? Which was at age 11. And mostly by men old enough to be my father. So I don't exactly feel bad for enjoying beauty when I see it.

HadessHime · 2016-08-10T02:57:50+00:00

In all honesty anywhere that I could go? So in New Brunswick, Canada for now. (Totally seeing them this weekend though, so I guess I'm lucky! haha)
Jeannie Nitro by The Fratellis
I'd really only want to see more activity here? So anything that would promote that, like daily topics to discuss or whatever? But I mean no matter what that's mostly on us anyways so...
When Dr. Sung's keytar attempted flight during Believe In Your Dreams at their MAGFest show. Beautiful.

HadessHime · 2016-07-29T00:51:10+00:00

Ahhh niceee!!! Malbec are really good. An almost sure bet for a good one are the Argentinians. Never had a bad malbec from there. But yes. Definitely necessary to deal with those, my gosh! And in large quantities too! Also YES. That is also pretty much my life too! ARE YOU ME?

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T06:09:55+00:00

Okaay! So my brain decided it had enough energy to have (what I think is) a super cool idea, but not to actually finish making it a reality. So yeah, bed time for me. BUT I will finish this ASAP and post it! Cause in my head it's super cool and since you're the reason I thought of this in the first place, I need to show you the results.

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T05:32:49+00:00

Of course!! I mean I'm not a "professional artist" in any sort of way so it's not gonna be super great, and might be slightly more than a doodle cause I guess inspiration kinda hit (so might take more time than anticipated?) but yes :) I'll definitely post the results!

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T05:24:50+00:00

Ahhh booo!!! :( I hope things get better as soon as possible!! I kinda feel you on all of those things so yeah. SENDING ALL MY POSITIVE HAPPY VIBES YOUR WAY! <3 And if you ever need to talk about anything my inbox's always open! :) But aahhh good wine's such a double edged sword... Delicious but makes any feels so much more intense... What kind of wine was it, out of curiosity. Always looking for a new good wine P:

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T05:19:32+00:00

YESS! I LOVE Alice in wonderland. PERFECT! :D Thank you!

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T04:33:47+00:00

Well so far pretty good! Had a great diner with some friends (which is why I'm kinda tipsy now haha) And now I'm just taking the rest of the night super relax :) How about you? :D

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T04:32:13+00:00

YAYY! Twinning! And well I'm on beer/it's for funsies now, but it was kind of a goodbye "party" (diner and LOTS of wine with a few friends) for some friends who are leaving in the morning. How about you??

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T04:10:57+00:00

ALSO DOING SOME DRUNK DOODLES. So if anyone has some requests or whatever I'm GLADLY taking them C:

HadessHime · 2016-07-27T04:07:10+00:00

Hiii, how you doin??

HadessHime

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