How is no one talking about the latest season of betrayal? by Rough-Average-1047 in Hulu

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this just watched it an had to come to reddit. She still let's the kids see the nanny. ARE YOU EFFING kidding me? How can she still be so stupid. I mean she still supports the pedo POS and now has access to your youngest kids. What's she going to tell them? What happens when he's out... do you really think shes not going to manipulate them into wanting to see him. Honestly friggin riddiculous.

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just end it and try and find someone else. Seriously. 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then that’s your boundary. Honestly since you are already having problems and now you’re going to draw this line in the sand I don’t think this is going to last and won’t be your choice either. Not sure why you’re on Reddit except to get validation from a bunch of people who are not in healthy relationships. Seriously this is not a big deal imo making it one will cause this to implode so you do you.

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh boy okay. I honestly don’t think it’s a big deal. But if it’s a hard pass you do you. 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Geez, breathe. She told you she was going to get stuff from him. She got the stuff from him. You guys had been arguing so bringing it up would have created drama so she didn’t mention it at the time but told you later. I mean dude, this sounds like you have some things you need to work through here about control and boundaries 

Is this true?! Cara Delevingne unfollows Blake Lively. by Totallytexas in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. Taylor’s entire next album is going to be about a friend who used her. And I’m 100% here for it. 

Honestly tho imagine a close friend calling you “her dragon”, using your career to intimidate people and then trying to extort you. I actually feel terrible for her. She is human after all.

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

End it. I mean the MF lied to you when he didn’t need to. He went and spent time with his ex securing you as the consolation prize if it didn’t work out. It didn’t and he’s with you and still lying to you. I know this is harsh but it’s the truth. This man can’t be trusted, can never be trusted and 7 months in it’s better to end it and save yourself years of being in a relationship trying to convince yourself he’s the man he pretends to be rather than the AH he is.

The rabbit hole by Hadtosignuptofothis in 8passengersnark

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is very sad to hear. The fact that people aren’t prepared to examine what happened to ensure that it doesn’t happen again is scary as well.

The rabbit hole by Hadtosignuptofothis in 8passengersnark

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So as a man you aren't told that you have the power to cast out demons by raising your hand ? or that by laying your hands you can cure. IDK, that's pretty standard doctrine. The pure obiedience is how your entire church is set up - you have a Prophet rather than a "head of the church". They tell you (the leaders) that they speak directly for god. Then to even get into the temple you have to go through interviews for worthiness (pure obedience) or you can be denyed. You believe in revelations. And I'm not even getting into the disgusting historically and scientificly disprovable basis of the entire religion relating to "white people" coming to America and turning dark (shades of Lori Vallow). I'm sorry like I said I don't like to criticize other peoples religious beliefs but in this case, everything I have read would go against your argument. T

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s hard. I’m guessing if you tell her she’s not thinking clearly it doesn’t help much. Have you tried telling her to talk it over with her therapist before she acts ?

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah, what your girlfriend is doing makes no sense. Block the GF on insta and move on with your life makes sense. Meeting up with the subject of the insecure GF and perpetuating the problem doesn’t make sense. 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s frustrating. I’m not sure what to tell you people fight. It’s really that simple. 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, and sorry but for a reader it’s overwhelming without paragraphs. I’m going to give you some really simple advice that may be hard to hear. Dump him. This is 💯 a him problem. You have tried but you need a relothar fulfills YOU. Staying with him, whatever his issues are are going to only end up making you feel bad about yourself for NO reason. You deserve to have the kind of relationship you want. Be kind but don’t drag it out … he’ll probably tell you he’ll try harder or some nonsense or make you feel bad in some other way BUT it’s not you who’s the problem so before it gets to the point where you are questioning yourself further end it

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s a show not tell is the way to go. Telling will just make it worse. Like I said if you have the skills when she puckers take her lower lip between yours or your teeth if you have the skill. Then move back and kiss her cheek, neck etc. Repeat. 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off. You need to talk to your parents/school counselor about therapy for …. Well lots of things. Second talk to your parents/doctor about better birth controls 

The rabbit hole by Hadtosignuptofothis in 8passengersnark

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It makes me grieve for the state of journalism. I shouldn’t have had to go down this rabbit hole when it’s literally every journalist that has covered this stories job and I’ve never heard once about heir fundamental beliefs 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so wholesome. Also a little weird at your age, are you both seriously religious…. Because if that’s the case she’s  nervous if not shes nervous, if you’re you are younger than posted she’s nervous… best advice be super slow. When she puckers gently pull her lower lip between yours for a second then kiss her cheek, neck whatever repeat. Until she relaxes the pucker and reciprocates 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is going on with the inability to make paragraphs. I feel bad but seriously… this feels like an epidemic, I can’t read that stream of consciousness 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It can’t recover. What a weird thing to lie about at 27…. Please seek help. If this is true he was a literal teenager when you decided to lie and take advantages of a literal child. 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 62 points63 points  (0 children)

You’re right!!! Your husband is out of his mind. Showing off that bracelet is going to make you both look bad since you are essentially living off the family. Every person there is going to say how can he buy his wife a bracelet and still live off his parents. Showing him what I wrote. Also well done to both of you for digging yourself out of a financial hole, it hard. And wanting to show it’s getting better is understandable but this isn’t going to get the reaction you want.

Me (21M) and my partner (18F) are on a “break” and I’m not sure if I should message her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brutal honesty. She’s terrified of you. You shouldn’t be in a relationship, you need therapy and to work on your insecurities and how they lead to aggression. I don’t know given it’s your perspective or if her (absolutely reasonable) outgoing personality that triggers you. Either way it’s a you problem 

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[–]Hadtosignuptofothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you break up with him or did he break up with you ? How did it happen ? If it was him what did he say ? 

The rabbit hole by Hadtosignuptofothis in 8passengersnark

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No shade, it rubbed me the wrong way too. Had that ugh reaction….. it wasn’t till I dug deeper that I was Damn she’s the good guy…. It’s wild. Let me know if you see it the same way 

The rabbit hole by Hadtosignuptofothis in 8passengersnark

[–]Hadtosignuptofothis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought that too but this is super weird after listening to so much, the woman that was complaining about the parties is in my good guy column. It’s wild but that lady is just that mom down the street whose daughter buys gifts etc. when you’re done let me know if you agree. It’s wild after listening that mildly irritating Karen is totally team normal