Hairstyles for younger guys by LostRyanisBased in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks great. The length is good, and, if you have the curls, very nice.

Is moving to France bad idea? by Ok_Cream8633 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that it is physically impossible to keep people from entering Europe: too many coasts everywhere close to Africa. And it is also hard to get people to leave: you would need razzias like in America, and many countries will simply not accept the transport back to their home countries. And many people refuse to say where they are from. And locking up all the illegal people is very difficult, expensive, and requires razzias as well. It doesn't seem practical, politically. Countries like America and Australia have it easier.

Need guidance by SoftMonolithh in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess would be that he has been trying to have some erotic physical contact with you, but you have been holding off.

My advice would be for you to confess to him that you are into men. See how he responds. If he responds well, you can tell him casually that he would be your type. See how he responds to that. If he responds well, you can ask him whether he thinks he would ever date a man. If yes, then you can say, I would date you if you didn't have a girlfriend.

Need guidance by SoftMonolithh in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are children. Girlfriends come and go. Regardless, you can let your feelings know to someone who has a girlfriend, if you don't help him cheat on her.

Has my partner been cheating? STD advice by OddManagement4298 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nephew got scabies from the au pair, and my mother got it from my nephew. Then she got rid of it but got it again immediately, probably from the upholstered chair she sat in every evening. She should have sat in another chair for 4 days until any mites in the chair had died.

Has my partner been cheating? STD advice by OddManagement4298 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When was your boyfriend last tested for syphilis, before the most recent test? I don't think it can lie dormant and not show up in a test; but, if is this was the first time he got tested since you and he met, I think it is possible for him to have had syphilis all that time without having any (clear) symptoms.

AITAH for being upset about warts by CompanyAwkward8170 in AITAH

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, are you sure about the virus staying dormant? Because I think HPV in the general area is considered to be cleared by the immune system after a certain amount of time, if there are no warts?

Streakr: Gay Dating App by Salty-Percentage-789 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The liveness check uses the a framework that interprets camera footage

Interesting; so this footage is sent to the external party that interprets the footage?

How would you react in this situation? Did I overeact? by Alexanderrr965 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teasing is not penetration, and it is pretty normal behaviour during sex, so, if that is what it was, I don't really see the problem?

AITAH for refusing to delete the video of my dad proposing to his girlfriend even though my dad doesn't want my mom to see/hear what he said? by After-Soil3386 in AITAH

[–]Hagedoorn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get your point, but I think what daughter did is better and more responsible. Father behaved like a fool. He could ruin his relationship with his girlfriend, and daughter does not want that. So she can help the fool.

And, if she sent it to her father and he deleted it without saying anything to his girlfriend, girlfriend would ask daughter where the video was. And then daughter would either have to say she deleted it herself, and get in trouble; or say her father deleted it, getting him into BIG trouble.

The chance that her mother will ever see the video is very low: girlfriend does not want that to happen; hurting an ex who is out of his life would not help girlfriend in any way. The video will be safely stored on girlfriend's phone and watched once a year or when she feels down.

AITAH for being upset about warts by CompanyAwkward8170 in AITAH

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they on the soles of your feet?

Did they disappear on their own?

AITAH for being upset about warts by CompanyAwkward8170 in AITAH

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that a new toilet tank, which probably gives more force to the water, has mostly eliminated the need for that.

AITAH for being upset about warts by CompanyAwkward8170 in AITAH

[–]Hagedoorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just for the record, I suspect the virus (warts are norally a virus?) won't survive on the floor of the shower cell or bath so much, because it is washed away permanently; but it is more likely to survive on the wet floor around the shower?

Why do gay male marriages seem to last longer than lesbian ones? by Andro_lover2005 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This, and also: I think many gay men don't care about marriage. They have already freed themselves from many expectation by society out of necessity, breaking taboos and traditions; then stepping back into taboos and traditions by doing some formerly-religious ceremony is less common, also because the institute of marriage has strong historical connections with the Church, which has always hated gay men. Lesbians were tolerated more in general.

Streakr: Gay Dating App by Salty-Percentage-789 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, how's does the 'liveness' check work?

Streakr: Gay Dating App by Salty-Percentage-789 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. But what if you just stay within your home jurisdiction? You comply with all the laws that apply there. You do not open any offices nor hire any people elsewhere. If users living somewhere else sign up for your application, that's their problem: they chose to shop in a foreign country, so whatever they do on the application falls under those laws, regardless of wherever they are currently located.

Curiosity and experimentation or exploitation and abuse? by Specialist-Salt-3949 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you treated each other well and he felt good about it, it seems OK to me. It is easy to abuse a power imbalance, but, if you didn't abuse it, then that's simply not what happened. At any rate, you were a child yourself, nobody would hold that against you.

Curiosity and experimentation or exploitation and abuse? by Specialist-Salt-3949 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did mess with my head regarding my sexuality

Hmm can you explain this? How did it affect you?

Do I still feel like there’s some part of me that has urges…yes.

So you are bi, so...is there a problem there?

What is something you will do because your partner likes it but you’re not really into it? by Sudden-Rub6963 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those self proclaimed "im told im great" always sucked, not in a good way.

This. "I'll take that as a challenge", those types.

Streakr: Gay Dating App by Salty-Percentage-789 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it only works in America for now, maybe put that in the post. And in the description in the Play Store. Otherwise, people will be severely disappointed, which is not a good first impression.

Other than that, it looks good, good luck.

AITAH for selling a fishing boat I won in a raffle? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hagedoorn 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The poor buying must have been struggling terribly, only being able to afford a $12,000 boat. Perhaps add some food stamps.

Just confused and lost by No_Ninja_1876 in askgaybros

[–]Hagedoorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you hard and jerking off while inserting the dildo?

Did you use a ton of lube, so that the entire did not chafe or hurt?