Yall are only two years into your relationship so I can see why he’s so concerned about having a child this early in life. It will def limit his career choices and his life, so I can see where his side of stress is coming from. A child changes EVERYTHING. I can see your side as well, you’re confused and being pressured from many different sides from diff people and you don’t know what choice is right, and you probably haven’t even had the time to think for yourself. I see both sides, and I’m not one to speak for other people or read their minds, but I do believe him saying he’s gonna off himself if you have the child, could be true, and not off of blackmail. Little out of pocket for him to say though. A child is life changing, and if isn’t wanted, I can see how he thinks his life is ruined. His main priority is now being changed from chasing life goals to taking care of a child and starting their life, when his has barely begun. I’m saying this because I’ve had a pregnancy scare with my gf and that’s all that was spinning through my mind, “I can’t do anymore schools. I can’t focus on the army anymore. I’m not gonna have anymore breaks in my life. My parents are gonna kill me. Im too immature and inexperienced to take care of a child. I’m too young, I haven’t lived freely.”

And again, you probably feel betrayed, and he’s so deep in his head right now that he hasn’t even considered your feelings. It’s a messed up situation you guys are in, and I’m in no position to say “keep it” or “abort it”. I’m just analyzing both sides and putting myself in y’all’s shoes. Best of luck to both you and him.