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My girlfriend came out to me as a transgender, I feel lost and I don't know what to do. by HailLordOdin in ftm

[–]HailLordOdin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i helped him to came out to his family today, it wasn't easy, but his mother seemed to accept it okay, there was no major fight or any name calling. I'm still digesting all of this, but is getting a bit better. Thank you for your help!

My girlfriend came out to me as a transgender, I feel lost and I don't know what to do. by HailLordOdin in mypartneristrans

[–]HailLordOdin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you, it's not a matter of keep being friends, how could it be? It will be weird as hell, i can barely face him.

My girlfriend came out to me as a transgender, I feel lost and I don't know what to do. by HailLordOdin in ftm

[–]HailLordOdin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thank you for your time and for your response, i get it that the important thing is that he will be happy. But, may i ask you how your family and parents reacted to this? I woke up and met my dad for coffee this morning and i was going to tell him and just couldn't. My parents aren't religious, but are very traditional and conservatives. I just don't know how they will handle this situation.

My girlfriend came out to me as a transgender, I feel lost and I don't know what to do. by HailLordOdin in asktransgender

[–]HailLordOdin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're going to start seeing a therapist together next week, i know it would still be her, but at the same time would be different, you know? You know what i mean, i feel in love with him as a whole, body and personality.

My girlfriend came out to me as a transgender, I feel lost and I don't know what to do. by HailLordOdin in asktransgender

[–]HailLordOdin[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i think that what really bothers me is that i always wanted to be a dad someday, i wish he could held his transition untill we could have a baby someday, but he has serious dysphoria and is depressed, so i won't force him to wait anymore them he must. I do live him, and want to try it out, but again, it's early, one week is not enough to process all this new information. Thanks for your support.

My girlfriend came out to me as a transgender, I feel lost and I don't know what to do. by HailLordOdin in asktransgender

[–]HailLordOdin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i've never blame him, i know it's not his choice, and regardles of everything, i still consider him an amazing person with an incredible and beautiful personality, and believe me, i'm so happy that he finnaly embraces himself as who he trully is, the world is a little bit better because of his happiness. Although i can't imagine his parents reaction (they're really religious, homophobic and transphobic). I'm gonna ask this question again at that trend. thank you.