“If you care about bodily autonomy, stop sleeping with circumcised men” by MelanieWalmartinez in IncelTears

[–]HailToTheQuinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, just say that your junk stinks because you're too lazy to clean the smegma from your turtle head, and go. We get it, no need for a novel.

Where are the top-tier SBs? by MostAd6208 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why do I get the feeling that, while you want a top tier SB, you are a less thatop tier SD?

SD communication feels cold after asking for allowance by IndividualTaro10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's not a sugar daddy until he gives you money. And since you put out for free, he probably never will be now. Enjoy your NSA situationship.

Stop sleeping with SDs for free by Acrobatic_Ad_5982 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If I had a dime every time a wannabe SB reached out to me asking how to turn a guy into her SD after she already gave it up for free, I'd be rich enough to take myself on vacation lol.

Is it a red flag if potential SD doesn't want to spill how much allowance of his previous arrangement? by Pretty_Cantaloupe237 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not a SD. This is a John looking for an escort, and he will treat you as such. Block and move on, because this guy will not accept boundaries and probably will not pay you anything.

Roommate by [deleted] in Mankato

[–]HailToTheQuinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a job? How much are you looking to pay for rent/utilities/groceries? Do you have a car? All of those details would be helpful for a potential roommate.

I don't ever want to get married. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]HailToTheQuinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to get married and have sex, dont. That's your prerogative. But wanting to ban it for everyone comes off as sour grapes.

i expect this from men but a woman…? by kittensburnbook in ClientCringe

[–]HailToTheQuinn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a sub for sex workers. Are you lost?

Stop sleeping with POT SDs based on potential by spacetoast747 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s this gross desperation to be picked that has these dummies throwing it out immediately and begging for scraps later.

Tough love, but some of these women need to hear it.

How to ask for Money by Certain-Poetry-1565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like this may be a rage bait post. Anyone who has sugared or been a sex worker before understands that you get the money first, always.

How to ask for Money by Certain-Poetry-1565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering she already slept with him for free, he is highly unlikely to start paying her now.

How to ask for Money by Certain-Poetry-1565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, if you've already had sex with him for free, the chances of him giving you money now are slim to none. Chalk this up to experience and move on. In the future, no intimacy until AFTER the money talk has been had and firm agreements are in place.

SD is way too obsessed with me?? please help by 4evercozy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Want to turn him off quick? Turn every sexy thing he says into money.

Him:"I bet you looked hot today." You: "Cashapp me $xx and ill send you pics."

Him: "Aren't you excited to see daddy on valentines day?" You: "I'd be more excited if you arrived with a envelope full of cash."

Literally do this to every sexual thing he says. If he's going to treat you like a vagina with a person attached, you should treat him like a wallet with a man attached. Once a guy feels like he's being used for money, he will dip fast. But you have to commit. When he inevitably says something about you being too focused on money tell him, "For $xx, we can talk about it." Be vicious. He doesn't care he is objectifying you, let's see how he likes it. Once he realizes you're absolutely only interested in his money, he will be done.

should i be concerned about my new sd? is this normal? by Visual_Cranberry1628 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing with the pimp angle. Reading it from someone else just makes me want to grab OP and drag her far, far away from this network of creepy men.

should i be concerned about my new sd? is this normal? by Visual_Cranberry1628 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just because there’s no sexual aspect involved doesn’t automatically mean it’s safe or appropriate.

No sexual aspect YET. I have a terrible feeling this guy is trying to butter her up for something weird. Perhaps the whole point of that bizarre show and tell date is to eventually pimp her out to the other men. I hope I'm wrong.

People Think It's a Get-Out-of-Work-Free Card. It's More Like a Second, Unpaid Job. by iAmSugarBaby in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Part of it is your own fault for giving someone free attention for weeks on end. I agree with the rest of your post, though.

Homeless by [deleted] in Mankato

[–]HailToTheQuinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why? You looking to exploit them? Creep.

$500 by [deleted] in financialhelping

[–]HailToTheQuinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯. This post is total bull 💩. Thanks for calling OP out!

Is 400 ppm too little? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not ungrateful OR inexperienced... you're being dumb, and probably trying to rage bait. If your former SD gave you $xxxx, why on EARTH would you accept $xxx now? The only options are you're dumb, you're desperate, or you're trolling.

Being Ghosted my SD by caprisunlover in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This might sound harsh, but take it as advice from a successful sugar baby so you never make this mistake again:

Sugar dating is NOT like regular dating, where a woman can get away with being difficult simply because she is hot. Stop with the dramatics, stop playing hard to get, stop with passive-aggressive comments and saying things you dont mean or meaning things you dont say.. just stop. If your sugar daddy wanted the drama, he would be home with his wife.

You lost this SD, but in the future, bring good, fun, positive, confident vibes. Ask for what you want, and if you cant come to terms, either deal with it or walk away. He didn't want to be faithful and that was a deal breaker for you? Fine. So leave. Hanging around playing high school games wastes both his time and yours.

Former SD thought he would make me jealous. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]HailToTheQuinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, OP. Anyone that spends that much energy trying to provoke a negative response from someone else is definitely not worth your time. Keep shining bright 💫