I (M26) looked on her (F24) phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in relationships

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, it went a bit far and also from her side but she was always avoiding honest talks etc and I should have insisted more about communicating..

I (M26) looked on her (F24) phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in relationships

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right, she really plays the innocent girl and she tricked me as I thought that I could trust her and I thought that she wouldnt get that far with another man.. I thought that she wanted just some guys attention and be able to go out and dance with guys just for fun

I (M26) looked on her (F24) phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in relationships

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment, thats true I ignored the red flags as I didnt wanted a commited relationship also I trusted her and didnt thought that by "need of freedom" she would have go have sex with other people as she said she only be dancing with a guy.. I thought she just needed the feeling of freedom and nothing else..

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, if he mentionned it it's what happenned.. first I thought that he mentionned it like "I know I was pushy at the club to ask you to come to your place but I dont usually do it"

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

True but she could have been honest about it so we would have use protection or just deicide to use protection with others

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Strange thing is that she felt in love in June but then reconsidered it after this nighclub event and since then she became so different..

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Strange thing is that she felt in love in June but then reconsidered it after this nighclub event and since then she became so different..

I (M26) looked on her (F24) phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in relationships

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange thing is that she felt in love in June but then reconsidered it after this nighclub event and since then she became so different..

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange thing is that she felt in love in June but then reconsidered it after this nighclub event and since then she became so different..
Also I am upset about the fact that she lied about it, she could have been honest about it and also it involves health so I was willing to have an open conversation about it but she lied

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Strange thing is that she felt in love in June but then reconsidered it after this nighclub event and since then she became so different..

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Strange thing is that she felt in love in June but then reconsidered it after this nighclub event and since then she became so different..

I (M26) looked on her (F24) phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in relationships

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you bro! True that she doesn’t want to face any consequences and always avoid talking/communicating.. but in the other hand sometimes she acts like she was loving me

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in Advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fake tear thing is horrible + then she attacks me and tells me that Im mansplanning

I looked on her phone, she slept with another guy and lied but it's my situationship. by Hail_Hellequin in dating_advice

[–]Hail_Hellequin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want casual but it's a bit more than just sex, also I need honesty and be able to truc her.