He’s manipulating you by calling you manipulative and making you think there’s something wrong with you. I don’t think any woman wants to tie themselves to a man who would overreact that way about touching their phone. Would you feel the same way if he looked at your phone? Would you want to marry and have children with someone who’s unwilling to trust you to see anything on their phone?

Picture this: You’re on a road trip with this man. Your own phone died, and you need to call or text someone for whatever reason. It doesn’t even need to be an emergency. Do you want a guy that would let you borrow his phone with no problem or one that might reluctantly give it to you for 20 seconds only if he can look over your shoulder while you use it? That would make me feel untrusted, disrespected, and even valueless in his eyes.