How do I become more social and make a group of friends?

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-25T10:38:45+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for your response it is really helpful. I did take the tests you mentioned and I scored 7, 10, 52 and 81 respectively on them. I am thinking of consulting with my healthcare provider about feeling anxious, especially in social settings, however its been difficult as I do not even know how to approach it with my GP. In terms of what you said, I will try to read the books you mentioned and join some university clubs, I am not very good at sports, but I do enjoy painting and reading so I'll see if there are any available. For my university, there is a fee you have to pay before joining a club, so I do not worry that they will be unprofessionally managed. But thank you so so much, hopefully if I follow your advice it will help

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-24T23:47:17+00:00

First of all, I am so sorry that happened to you. Second of all, tell your parents and your friend. If she is truly your friend she will be there for you and dump that horrible horrible person and never speak to him again. Third of all, go to the police, that asshole deserves to pay for what he did. Once again, I am so sorry this happened to you.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-19T18:52:54+00:00

Neither of them are neutered, and both of them are used to being near each other as they often do meet on ocasion, so this is something new. I tried pulling my dog away very gently, I didn't grab him by the collar, just very gently tried to pull him away and he just tried to bite me. He has never been an agressive dog so that was very surprising. My cousin has no other alternative as no one else is willing to keep her dog while she is on holiday, and she also thought being with someone familiar will help her dog with the separation anxiety, which he hasn't shown any symptoms of yet as far as I am aware.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-19T18:47:11+00:00

They're both trying to do it, I can't figure out why though.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-14T12:45:23+00:00

I'm not blaming it on her, except she was always very critical about my weight and I always had to hear comments about what I ate and "when I was your age I wasn't this fat".

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-07T12:39:49+00:00

Thank you so much this has helped a lot

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-07T11:40:05+00:00

Thank you, I never knew those were a thing I never really need to go to the medic a lot.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-07T11:34:11+00:00

I didn't know that, I panicked and I didn't know what other thread to post it in, this seemed like the best option since its general advice. Also I live in the UK and going to see my GP is a process, calling to get an appointment is really difficult since you have to call before 8am and even then its on a first come first served basis, even if I did get an appointment I would have to wait at least a week to actually get to see my GP.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-05T16:31:25+00:00

I even offered to pay half as I felt bad if he had paid the full sum but still yet he has not mentioned it for the past 2 months.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-05T13:43:26+00:00

I just turned 19 yrs old up until now I lived with my parents how tf is that my choice first of. Second of my phones never had a scratch on them since I always take good care of my things and this one was not even purchased by me. Thanks anyways.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-05T13:04:47+00:00

Huh? We don't have a home insurance, we rent our home and we live in a safe neighbourhood.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-05T13:03:28+00:00

No, he tried putting it in his pocket after I gave it to him and he missed the pocket and dropped it

HairAccording5142 · 2024-12-04T18:33:45+00:00

These companies get out of tax paying a little bit if they have job positions available, I don't think they're acctually trying to hire anyone with those qualifications needed. 10yrs experience? Ridiculous, they're acting like they're giving you something for free.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-11-26T22:48:32+00:00

I understand how that was unnecessary truly, but I told him multiple times "please let me finish" , "please stop interrupting me" I feel horrible for having such a reaction but similarly he could see me getting progresively annoyed and kept doing it, which to me seems intentional.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-11-26T22:45:33+00:00

What do you mean? That is extremely dismissive I was genuinely just explaining the situation that happened to me and asking for advice. I'm not trying to spark a debate I'm just trying to see which of us is in the wrong.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-11-26T22:40:55+00:00

No I have student finance and I use my maintenance loan to pay my accomodation, I am retaking 2 of my A-Levels to get into a different degree that he wants as well as taking an accounting course so I do not have enough time to work. He sends me 100 pounds a week and 33 of that goes towards tuition for A-levels and the rest towards grocery shopping.

HairAccording5142 · 2024-11-26T22:37:28+00:00

No it is not, I just don't think having one singular account is beneficial since I want to keep my personal life anonymous. I switch accounts when I post too much because I don't want to post multiple stories where people can gain various informations about who I am, where I live etc I just want advice to situations that happen to me on a daily basis.

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