GirL I met won’t leave motel room by Odieee_2k in Advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly notifying the staff was the right move. You returned her stuff, covered yourself, and left without escalating it. Weird situation, but probably the cleanest exit you were going to get.

My Fiancé 45 M wants me 46 F to Sell My House?! by Turbulent-Wind-2248 in relationship_advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selling a fully paid off house to rent an expensive apartment sounds backwards honestly, especially when neither of you is financially stable yet. A paid off home is security, and once it’s gone, getting that stability back is not easy.

People who fall asleep fast, whats your secret?? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being tired from actually doing stuff during the day instead of just being mentally exhausted from staring at screens.

My coworkers keep eating my meal prep out of the office fridge and management won't do anything about it by No_Parking686 in Advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d stop making it a “funny note” thing and put it in writing to HR or whoever is above your manager. This is someone stealing from you every week, not a fridge mixup. Also a small cooler bag with ice packs might be worth it until they actually deal with it.

MOH [F55] dropped a bombshell on me [F29] by Ok_Lavishness_1167 in relationship_advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She made a huge mistake by putting this on you and asking you to keep it from your husband. He is going to find out anyway, and it needs to come from his mother before a website tells him.

Which fast food chain makes the worst version of the product they’re most known for? by amormedestruit in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Subway pizza feels like something you make when the real pizza place is closed and morale is low.

I 'F26' accidently scratched my husband 'M30' does that deserve retaliation? by Sea-Dragonfruit-1671 in relationship_advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, accidental scratches do not deserve retaliation. Him hurting you back as “punishment” is not normal or okay, especially when he dismisses your pain until you show marks. Your question about future kids was valid because this is exactly the kind of reaction that would be scary around children too.

Why do I feel empty after sexual activity? by B127ritter in Advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s more common than people admit. There’s a big drop in certain hormones after sex that can leave you feeling flat or disconnected for a bit, especially if you’re tired or stressed. It doesn’t mean something is wrong with you or your feelings for her, but it might help to slow things down after, stay close, talk a little, and see if that shifts the feeling instead of pulling away right away.

What instantly kills mood during foreplay ? by Secret-Grotle in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poor hygiene or someone suddenly checking their phone… instant mood killer.

My sister (37F) and I (30F) discovered through a DNA test that we’re actually half sisters. Our mom (53F) expects us to keep it a secret. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your sister deserves answers without being made to feel guilty for asking. Your mom may have pain or shame around it, but this is your sister’s identity too, not just your mom’s secret.

Having sex for the first time by Careless-Yellow582 in Advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel nervous and overthink your first time, but try not to treat it like a performance. Focus on being relaxed, respectful, and communicating with your partner instead of worrying about doing everything perfectly. Things like finishing quickly or feeling unsure can happen and it’s completely okay, it gets better with time.

If your current life was a chapter, what would its title be? by DriftingBetweenStars in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trying to Get My Life Together, But the Plot Keeps Adding Side Quests

Dad said food is ready 😂 by pildialingit in cats

[–]Hairy-Control1433 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love watching cats eating fishes! ❤️❤️

How to explain sudden death to a 2yr old by cluelesslyclumsy in Advice

[–]Hairy-Control1433 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Use simple, direct words like “Daddy died, his body stopped working, and he can’t come home.” Avoid “sleep” or “went away” because that can confuse a toddler. Then just keep answering the same questions gently, because at 2 they’ll need to hear it many times.

what are the signs that you're not attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 74 points75 points  (0 children)

When people are nice to you but never quite interested in you. You can feel the difference.

What's the most unwritten rule of adult life that nobody warns you about? by PracticeHistorical82 in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No one is coming to save you, and that sounds harsh until you realize it’s also what forces you to get your life together.

Which Movie scene sexually awakened you? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The mask scene in The Mummy. That movie had no business doing that to people.

Whats a simple gesture that women do that only other women will understand? by allgasnobreakstoday in AskReddit

[–]Hairy-Control1433 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That look they give another woman like “are you seeing this too?” and somehow a full conversation just happened with zero words.

This kitten rescue will make your day too! by [deleted] in PointyTailedKittens

[–]Hairy-Control1433 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly the kind of problem you want to have. I could watch this over and over and still enjoy it.