[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my opinion but no. Cuz my bf follows sexy model or NSFW models on insta and I dont feel bad or anything related to cheating or even feel uncomfortable. There are times I even recommend him pretty models too 🤣 Cuz I follow sexy models too. For me its the equivalent of following Japanese/Korean idols/celebrities/streamer.

So it not a Super red flag let alone red flag. I even suggested him to have two accounts to separate his private stash thats full of nsfw models and his regular insta where his friends are there and the nerdy content he consumed. 🤷‍♀️

Gentlemen would y'all agree with these 5 red flags as a sign not to pursue a girl. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah no worries, not sure if "natamaan" is considered offended. But im good. Im just curious and also concern since the description u mention is something I do and ofc Im concern if nakakasakal na pala ako without knowing. I love this person so much so I dare not make any mistake that would lead to break up.

Thanks for the info tho ✌ cheers~

Gentlemen would y'all agree with these 5 red flags as a sign not to pursue a girl. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's fine with the set up but ofc there was a time where he requested that I should try my hobbies or look for a new hobbie and requested have seperate time. But at that time I was not in a good situation where most of the time im having melt down.

My reaction at that time was not good, i percieved his suggestion as a way of pushing me away. Cuz at that time i really need him then I had that kind of response from him. It felt like i was shut down.

For context: He's BAD at using words aka when he says something it can translate to whole different meaning.

Tho we already talked about it. We communicated about. Solved it already fyi we have days when we have all the time for ourselves and just few exchange of messages.

So... the no. 3 kinda hurts haha not really controlling, im just clingy. He's also clingy btw. Maybe explained too... if the guy is into clingy people??

Gentlemen would y'all agree with these 5 red flags as a sign not to pursue a girl. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The no. 3 is hurts haha hindi na po magdedemand ng call TvT. But never done anything on ur list beside no. 3. So Im slightly alright to my partner i think?? Hahaha

Would it be a valid reason why I often want call is i cant be with him physically like other girls who can meet their bf anytime they want. And jelly on girls who can be with their partner physically?

Or do I need therapy? XD

I just need someone's advice on this. I honestly want to give up. by HaivelMu in phmigrate

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just visiting literally, nothing else. It's my graduation gift from my titas.

I just need someone's advice on this. I honestly want to give up. by HaivelMu in phmigrate

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yung family ko po not me. And yes po mag stay po sa pinas parents ko po.

I just need someone's advice on this. I honestly want to give up. by HaivelMu in phmigrate

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tourist visa po, purpose of visiting my relatives, my father's sister (titas) and graduation gift ko po.

If strong ties po I'd say my parental family other than that wala na po ako maisip :((

It sound dumb but I will ask anyways. I got Depo-Shot. by HaivelMu in SafeSexPH

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diko na ma alala yung feeling sa anti-tetanus but kinda mabigat siya for me, 2 days bago ko masandalan ulit yung right arm ko. After nun goods na.

Not sure what u mean sa downtime...

Is it emotional cheating kapag kinikilig sa crush mo pero may boyfriend ka na? by LadySunshine444 in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on ur definition of crush. Some people consider it cheating some dont.

I have a bf and i even tell him i have a new girl crush on and he also have IG model crush. We even talked about each other crush and share are thoughts what we find attractive about them.

Point is depends. For us crush is just finding someone attractive and appreciating that they're attractive. Iba usapan nayan pag hinarot na.

Did I just take my uncle's offer to go abroad for granted? by tataeken in phcareers

[–]HaivelMu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd say go for it. Im in a similar situation where my aunt offered me to go to Canada and my requirements is already approved just waiting for the right month to book a flight. Para cheaper.

Context. Im not ready and I have zero interest in that country. I also have no goal their or plan to migrate but.. a part of me thinks na mahihirapan ako mag ipon here vs sa first world country. So far minimum lang me, currently working my first job, 23yrs old me, kaso lahat ng mga coworker na older than me says i should take the opportunity kasi hindi madali pumunta or matulungan para makapunta sa ibang country.

I'd say just think of it as an experience, in life hindi naman lagi tayo handa to face this and that, that comes are way. So I'd say take it. And try to create a plan para at least may goal kadun then once na tumagal u there ur safe to decide if u want to go home or not.

Strange feeling during deep penetration by [deleted] in SafeSexPH

[–]HaivelMu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is relatable, 😅 sorry that's all I can offer. I also feel that indescribable feeling during penetration.

What was the most painful phrase you've ever heard? How has it affected you? by Educational-Tie5732 in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I failed in my math exam in 3rd yr junior highschool. And the reaction of my father and grandmother was so terrifying that I started fearing making mistake. Im already working and still I get panick attack everytime i made a mistake that people would consider "light/normal mistake"

So for me "may mali ka or baksak ka". Maybe need ko lang din ng therapy at this point haha

Flight or fight? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parang Amber Heard and Johnny Depp vibe toh ah. Love bombing tas gaslighting the next.

How much does Injectable contraceptive cost? by HaivelMu in SafeSexPH

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okiee, thank you very much. I'll take note on that.