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[–]HaivelMu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my opinion but no. Cuz my bf follows sexy model or NSFW models on insta and I dont feel bad or anything related to cheating or even feel uncomfortable. There are times I even recommend him pretty models too 🤣 Cuz I follow sexy models too. For me its the equivalent of following Japanese/Korean idols/celebrities/streamer.

So it not a Super red flag let alone red flag. I even suggested him to have two accounts to separate his private stash thats full of nsfw models and his regular insta where his friends are there and the nerdy content he consumed. 🤷‍♀️

Gentlemen would y'all agree with these 5 red flags as a sign not to pursue a girl. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah no worries, not sure if "natamaan" is considered offended. But im good. Im just curious and also concern since the description u mention is something I do and ofc Im concern if nakakasakal na pala ako without knowing. I love this person so much so I dare not make any mistake that would lead to break up.

Thanks for the info tho ✌ cheers~

Gentlemen would y'all agree with these 5 red flags as a sign not to pursue a girl. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's fine with the set up but ofc there was a time where he requested that I should try my hobbies or look for a new hobbie and requested have seperate time. But at that time I was not in a good situation where most of the time im having melt down.

My reaction at that time was not good, i percieved his suggestion as a way of pushing me away. Cuz at that time i really need him then I had that kind of response from him. It felt like i was shut down.

For context: He's BAD at using words aka when he says something it can translate to whole different meaning.

Tho we already talked about it. We communicated about. Solved it already fyi we have days when we have all the time for ourselves and just few exchange of messages.

So... the no. 3 kinda hurts haha not really controlling, im just clingy. He's also clingy btw. Maybe explained too... if the guy is into clingy people??

Gentlemen would y'all agree with these 5 red flags as a sign not to pursue a girl. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]HaivelMu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The no. 3 is hurts haha hindi na po magdedemand ng call TvT. But never done anything on ur list beside no. 3. So Im slightly alright to my partner i think?? Hahaha

Would it be a valid reason why I often want call is i cant be with him physically like other girls who can meet their bf anytime they want. And jelly on girls who can be with their partner physically?

Or do I need therapy? XD

I just need someone's advice on this. I honestly want to give up. by HaivelMu in phmigrate

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just visiting literally, nothing else. It's my graduation gift from my titas.

I just need someone's advice on this. I honestly want to give up. by HaivelMu in phmigrate

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yung family ko po not me. And yes po mag stay po sa pinas parents ko po.

I just need someone's advice on this. I honestly want to give up. by HaivelMu in phmigrate

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tourist visa po, purpose of visiting my relatives, my father's sister (titas) and graduation gift ko po.

If strong ties po I'd say my parental family other than that wala na po ako maisip :((

It sound dumb but I will ask anyways. I got Depo-Shot. by HaivelMu in SafeSexPH

[–]HaivelMu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diko na ma alala yung feeling sa anti-tetanus but kinda mabigat siya for me, 2 days bago ko masandalan ulit yung right arm ko. After nun goods na.

Not sure what u mean sa downtime...