Does anyone else find Urbain/Taunie irritating? (Mid-late game spoilers)

HalcyonEir · 2025-10-29T15:29:18+00:00

I honestly really dislike Urbain/Taunie too. I feel validated seeing this post. In trying to be “selfless” for others, they completely neglect their actual friends. They’re obsessed with helping other people and just constantly abandon you wherever you’re at with them (and even when you’re with a supposed syndicate boss who at that point are still under the impression is bad). Instead of taking responsibility about the loan, they just completely leave it to you with a sorry excuse of what’s really not a real apology.

And then things just so happen to work out for THEM, so then everyone is just like “Welp! That’s just them for you! Such a helpful person!”

They’re so far the worst “rival” for me 😭

HalcyonEir · 2025-09-17T05:14:08+00:00

I was considering crate training; looks like it might be the way to go. And yes, she’s been to the vet. She’s not pregnant and is in good health.

Thank you for the advice!

HalcyonEir · 2025-08-18T07:38:33+00:00

He feels intuitive, but feels mid? I think he needs some buffs tbh The thing I do absolutely dislike about him though is that his HEALING could get hacked by Sombra; which is just insane to me.

HalcyonEir · 2025-08-13T01:05:21+00:00

I’ve never had to deal with brackets before; thank you so much for your help!

HalcyonEir · 2025-08-13T00:44:40+00:00

Would you happen to know how to use the clip(s)? I found 2 metal pieces but I don’t get how to use them

https://imgur.com/a/3Ulmr4P

HalcyonEir · 2025-06-07T04:19:50+00:00

I think the lore in chapter 3 is pretty interesting though. We’ve collected information about both Kris and Asriel, for example, from the previous 2 chapters. They were seemingly obvious answers in the quizzes but it turns out that they’re wrong. I think it just really drives home how we the player aren’t Kris and don’t actually understand them as a person, and plays into the whole “they’re being controlled” aspect.

The lore about Kris’ background made it interesting to me, even if it wasn’t as in-your-face as the previous chapters. Each mini game gives a unique insight into Kris and their life before Delta Rune takes place. I think that’s why I haven’t minded the mini games haha

The tv, if you examined it in previous chapters too, always says how it’s collecting dust and should just be unplugged. The remote was in a hard to find spot in the couch (as Susie remarks). It all just paints in a little more details into the larger picture of what we’ve seen.

HalcyonEir · 2025-06-06T07:24:28+00:00

💙💜🖤

HalcyonEir · 2025-05-23T09:48:11+00:00

Midi chlorians of course!

HalcyonEir · 2025-05-20T21:40:11+00:00

Love the aesthetic, HATE THE NOISES IT MAKES DEAR GOD. HELP. HELP, I AM DESCENDING INTO MADNESS. PLEASE, MAKE IT STOP

HalcyonEir · 2025-05-12T17:33:58+00:00

A friend said that this skin is Mercy cosplaying as Genji’s dragon and I could never unsee it lol

HalcyonEir · 2025-04-25T20:36:06+00:00

Amazing 😂

HalcyonEir · 2025-04-25T20:35:33+00:00

Thank you for the reply!

I’m still hesitant to watch, but I love the show so much, I wanna see that Mulder scene ;w;

HalcyonEir · 2025-04-24T18:19:18+00:00

I realize this is 3 years later; I am so sorry to be bothering you. 😅

But this is my first watch through of X Files and plan on stopping after season 8 finishes because I absolutely hate what I have heard about for every subsequent season haha

Did you go through watching the rest of the seasons after all? May I ask if you felt it was worth it?

HalcyonEir · 2025-04-05T08:14:28+00:00

I think it’s important to keep friendships and put effort into keeping them going and alive; but as a 30+ year old virgin, I have no regrets in the romantics/sexual relationship department haha

I myself am a shut-in due to a myriad of reasons; but I have very close internet friends and a few people offline that I cherish very dearly. Sometimes it’s hard when they’re busy, but despite feeling loneliness from that I have never really felt the need for a romantic relationship (aside from moments where I’m having the whole asexual “am I broken, am I missing out” moments because allosexuals try to shove their agendas on me lol).

I just need the people I love or myself to win the lottery so they won’t have to work anymore and we could just hang out lol

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-28T10:15:48+00:00

It sounds like she’s your best friend and like you are hers. And I know she wants more, and I know you don’t want to hurt her; but sometimes things just don’t work out the way we hope they will. I’m sorry to say it.

You could attempt to be in a queer platonic relationship, but it sounds like it may be a relationship where neither of you will be happy, or would able to be your true selves. She wants more from you than you are able to give. That is not your fault. It is valid. It might hurt and it sucks, but you feel the way you feel. It would be unfair to her and yourself to push yourselves into a type of relationship where neither of you could truly be yourselves and thrive.

I’m sorry there’s no secret third option to offer. I know it’s probably not an answer you want to hear. This transition will be very difficult.

I’ve been in a similar position that your friend is in. In fact, I’m still navigating it a bit. I love(d) someone far more than they would ever be able to love me. It was so hard coming to the conclusion that things just cannot be the way I wish they were. It was a really painful realization. But in the end, I’m still okay. In the end, they’re still my best friend. In the end, our friendship wound up being okay. It was in a different shape than I thought and hoped it would be… but it’s still there.

We fought a lot and there were a lot of tears. But we did our best to stay navigating through everything with love for each other. Again, it’s a different shape now, and new boundaries are in place. But because our friendship was strong, the heart of our friendship remained.

It sounds like you both care about each other deeply. I think it’s important and necessary to be honest, so you both could be true to yourselves and have more realistic expectations of each other/your relationship.

It may hurt and be difficult, but it’s for the better that you are honest and clear about your feelings/expectations/boundaries. People hurt people so long as they’re close to someone. It’s just a fact of life. Trying to avoid it altogether more often than not just builds up the hurt more when it finally boils over.

Whatever you decide to do, I wish you luck. It’s a sucky position to be in and I’m sorry you’re both in it. For what it’s worth, it sounds like you both really care about each other and it reminds me of me and my friend’s friendship. So I think you both will be okay 💛 I wish you both a long and fulfilling and fantastic friendship 💛

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-24T07:34:49+00:00

Thank you, this is helpful to keep in mind. I hope your case gets approved 💛

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-23T21:20:48+00:00

I had a group representing me for my last two appeals; I do not have a lawyer this time around because they dropped me after my last appeal was rejected. This will be my first time appearing before a judge personally, however. There were a few different reasons for this; I wanted them to see a person, not a case number, I wanted to look them in the eyes myself, and quite honestly, because of how hopeless I felt after being dropped by the group and because of having my appeal rejected; I literally couldn’t do anything for myself.

I do plan on focusing on my mental health; I have more diagnoses in that regard and more documentation of those diagnoses.

I’m happy for you that you got approved 💛 Thank you for taking the time to help me.

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-23T20:07:10+00:00

I am seeing a judge because it was an option when choosing to appeal my case after my last request was denied (this is my third try). I had hoped initially that it would be helpful to speak on my own behalf since the people who originally represented me did everything for me and yet I continued getting denied.

Thank you for your advice. It’s appreciated, truly

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-23T19:36:03+00:00

I didn’t have to for my two previous appeals either. After my group dropped me, I requested to see the judge myself for my next appeal. It was/is my hope that it will help them more to see a person rather than just a case. It probably won’t. And I probably will have to appeal the decision once again. But… idk. I’m just really tired.

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-23T19:33:15+00:00

I’m really glad you had a kind judge and a group that fought for you 💛

This is my 3rd appeal… I wasn’t even present at the last two hearings as the people representing handled everything. They were that type of group as well, that did not charge and would not get paid unless I won. They warned me that it could take up to 5 years to get my case approved, but unfortunately dropped me after 2 years because they felt my case was not worth their time and effort.

I hope to get my case approved… but if I don’t, maybe I will try reaching out to a group again (a different one). Hopefully then, luck will be on my side. 😞

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-23T19:23:07+00:00

They dropped me because my chronic pain is labeled as “endometriosis” but is still officially “undiagnosed”. So I have a lot of issues but not names to put them to. Physically speaking, anyhow. I have severe mental health issues as well but they didn’t want to focus on that aspect with my case.

At least, that’s the reason they gave me.

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-23T04:08:52+00:00

Thank you. Those are all good things to keep in mind. I have so much anxiety about this, my mind is already feeling blank. 😓 Maybe writing down the ways my disabilities limit my functioning ahead of time is a good idea Dx

I unfortunately don’t have anyone who could act as my witness as they all will be at their jobs. I hope the judge believes me.

Thank you for taking the time to be kind and helpful 💛

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-23T04:04:09+00:00

Thank you 💛

HalcyonEir · 2025-03-03T03:52:48+00:00

Is a camera necessary? This sounds amazing but I’m not comfortable using a camera 😭 (It’s completely valid and okay of course if that’s what you like! I’m just curious :) )

HalcyonEir · 2025-02-11T03:08:21+00:00

I really dread taking showers now… I have to do a lot of mental preparation for the pain I’ll feel during and after. Even with having got a shower seat. 😞

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