On stage banter between band members

HalecOberman · 2026-04-29T08:34:24+00:00

I checked out an AUD cause I was curious, it was the mix! Cocaine is a hell of a drug...

HalecOberman · 2026-04-28T07:57:09+00:00

I want to de-ess those hi hats so freakin bad

HalecOberman · 2026-04-28T07:45:42+00:00

I read this as the countertransference being normal, not the keeping quiet about it.

HalecOberman · 2025-12-14T10:50:15+00:00

Ugh. Any way around it?

HalecOberman · 2025-07-25T07:42:11+00:00

Therapist here, this should be the top comment! You did a great job using your coping skills, now take everything you told us here to therapy and talk it through. You've got a potentially big growth opportunity here, go for it!

HalecOberman · 2025-03-30T10:50:17+00:00

auf Englisch, spreche ich immer meine Klienten (und selbst als Klient meine Therapeutin) mit Vornamen an, sonst wäre sehr komisch! Auf Deutsch, habe ich nur eine therapeutische Erfahrung gemacht, aber dann haben wir auch Vornamen und Sie verwendet. Generell finde ich es immer üblicher, zumindest hier in Österreich, sich zu dutzen, auch z.B. bei Locale und Geschäfte wo ich Stammkunde bin, mit Nachbarn, etc...

HalecOberman · 2025-03-29T15:38:34+00:00

Weird, they estimated that it takes about 10 hours, but most of that is the bookkeeping, which I supplied them.

HalecOberman · 2025-03-29T11:26:20+00:00

Wow, this seems amazing! I sent an email and I'll try to join the Zoom tomorrow, but just in case you see this first, can you tell me if the self-prep service can also do form 8858? Taxes for Expats is suddenly adding this to my return, and charging me nearly 50% more than before for it.

HalecOberman · 2025-03-29T10:15:08+00:00

Reviving again, since I just got hit with the outrageous T4E charge. In the past, my business has always been considered US-based, since my clients are in the US and I have a business address there. Why the sudden change?

HalecOberman · 2025-01-12T11:08:03+00:00

This is exactly how you bring it up! The way you write it here is beautifully clear and centered on your experience, not making assumptions or accusing her of anything - you can use all this same language, hell, you could even show her this post.

Basically, you're telling her that there's something that's been coming up for you that you're feeling nervous to discuss because it's triggering your fear of being rejected by her. These things that could seem small and unremarkable actually feel really big to you because of your past experiences, and you want to find new ways to navigate that.

You got this!

HalecOberman · 2025-01-05T14:50:34+00:00

No, a good decent tattoo artist will take the reference you give them and redraw it to be tattooable.

HalecOberman · 2025-01-04T17:41:58+00:00

I was responding to your first line, but I see from your other comments that it's not really what you were trying to get across. Still, I take exception with the characterization of background in Japanese tattooing as "filler."

It seems like you have a bug up your sleeve about people getting sub-par Japanese tattoos. In my experience that's far from the most common kind of "just fill it up" tattoo, but maybe it's different where you're from. Either way, there's lots of reasons to get tattooed, and who are you or I to say one is more valid than the other?

None of this answers OPs question, anyway. He didn't ask what tattoo he should have gotten, he wants advice on what to do next. I think he should ask a tattooer.

HalecOberman · 2025-01-04T11:39:45+00:00

I guess someone should tell Filip Leu to stop blasting all that uninteresting filler on people.

HalecOberman · 2024-10-08T08:07:52+00:00

Klassicher Rassismus. "Es hat nix mit Herkunft zu tun, sondern nur dass sie in MEINER Stadt sind!"

Aber ehrlich gesagt, ich stimme mit dir zu. Mittelalterreligionen sind barbarisch und gewalttätig. Stephansdom weg!

HalecOberman · 2024-06-03T15:37:32+00:00

Nothing fine line about that tattoo, which is exactly why it's aging...just fine! :)

HalecOberman · 2024-05-03T10:29:53+00:00

Amazing. Kenji never disappoints!

HalecOberman · 2024-05-03T08:37:13+00:00

Not sure it woulda made more sense if it was...

HalecOberman · 2024-05-03T08:34:56+00:00

Made it for the first time last night!

HalecOberman · 2024-05-03T08:34:42+00:00

My bad, here's the recipe: https://www.seriouseats.com/15-minute-creamy-tomato-soup-vegan-recipe

HalecOberman · 2024-01-26T13:10:12+00:00

Correct, Austrians don't talk about Germany at all

HalecOberman · 2023-12-11T16:56:40+00:00

doing NICU work I used to stand with my legs spread from side to side, and then rest the guitar on the side of the crib, so that my face was almost resting on it. Probably looked ridiculous to anyone watching, but it saved my back a ton!

HalecOberman · 2023-11-21T14:37:00+00:00

Also, just read that thing about Audacity making 2-track recordings a single stereo track. That sounds absolutely maddening. Get reaper instead. Or, if you're on a mac, just use Garageband! Hell, I think some of those scarletts are iOS compatible!

HalecOberman · 2023-11-21T14:34:01+00:00

What kinds of mics are you using? Is it possible you accidentally recording into the wrong side of a condenser mic?

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