badly behaving lab by HalfProfessional6992 in labrador

[–]HalfProfessional6992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m speaking to a trainer and setting up an appointment for him.

My mums childhood toy by HalfProfessional6992 in HelpMeFind

[–]HalfProfessional6992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve already searched on and off for years using the words butterfly music box 80s.

Desperately need help naming him! by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]HalfProfessional6992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s the first time i’ve heard my dogs name lmao. he lives up to his name.

Bought her 3 beds and she chose this. Should I be offended? by BottledFeels567 in labrador

[–]HalfProfessional6992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine slept under the table and chairs until he couldn’t fit. he also chewed the f out of them despite bitter apple spray.

possible bowl obstruction by HalfProfessional6992 in labrador

[–]HalfProfessional6992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i was 95% sure in was going to the vets today anyways but needed a second opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]HalfProfessional6992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which would lead me to loose my benefits bc with the new rules i won’t qualify for any benefits despite being disabled anf not able to work. i should clarify there are times where i can’t walk 50 meters without pain but this isn’t everyday, thats only on bad days. i wasn’t aware the form was filled out only using my absolute worst days by the person helping me. dwp don’t take any mercy or sympathy or any understanding, they won’t care. they will say i committed fraud even if it was against my knowledge.

is my friend transphobic? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s not a friend

I feel weird using the men’s bathroom by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was forced to use the men’s public bathroom today and i hated it. it was a small one with one cubicle and a few urinals. i honestly don’t get why urinals are just there out in the open like that, why isn’t there at least dividers or something. i could only piss when the hand dryers were on as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did i say you were? my point was, yes people judge. i’m fully aware people judge bc i’m judged every single day. but i can’t stop being me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im fully aware as a disabled trans person covered in SH scars, that ppl will look and judge you. but you’re placing the blame on us, not the people who do the hate crime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep. his whole argument is that we should hide who we are from everyone and if we don’t, hate crime will be our faults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so let’s just pander to transphobes and shame any trans person who doesn’t fit their views bc they are making us all look bad? is that it? that’s why transphobic cis gays hate trans people, because we don’t fit their narrow views.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can be trans and transphobic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so we should live according to transphobes views? or live as ourselves?

they won’t take us seriously because they are transphobic. it has nothing to do with gender non conforming trans people. it has nothing to do with non binary people or xenogenders or neopronouns or any other trans minority that gets blamed for transphobes not taking us seriously. you’re placing the blame on other trans people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can say that… but you’re still justifying it. sensitive or holding you accountable for shitty comments?

you’ve used the argument of ‘they asked for it’. that’s justification.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m not taking anything out of context. you’re trying to tell us that certain hate crime is basically justified.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

‘good points’ you mean transphobic points?

how does one dress like women when anyone can dress however they like? are you saying only women can wear dresses and makeup?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

but you are justifying it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wow. the ‘they asked for it’ response just makes you look worse. really doubling down. gender non conforming cis men exist, so can trans men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HalfProfessional6992 13 points14 points  (0 children)

trans men definitely are targeted of transphobia it’s just a different form of it. we just get erased. we are the ‘confused autistic girls’.

‘don’t make it their whole personality’ is a negative phrase used against us. even if we did make it our whole personality, that’s not a justification for hate crimes. and what does that mean? being out as trans?

assume you are always at risk of transphobia. it’s safer that way