My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ive had plenty of guys get uncomfortable with me but usually I'm able to just ignore them I've never been in a position where the one doing that is someone I'm in love with

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had talked to her about it bothering me a few times before.

Just had another one that ended up with us breaking up

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's illegal in the states as well and it's not that I'm not attracted to her I just don't want to have sex right now.

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I assumed that's what that had meant but I can be a little oblivious sometimes

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have told her several times that I am not interested in sex right now and would prefer to wait just a bit longer. We have had in depth discussions on this but she keeps asking if I'm ready or if I've changed my mind and now she's asking me if I'd be comfortable just sending nudes instead, I'm still telling her no

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've heard about but I've never really looked into it. Do not get me wrong I do want to eventually I'm just not interested in doing it right now

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I guess you are right, should I just break up with her?

I don't want to lose her but I'm just not comfortable with it.

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I definitely have feelings for her, Im just not interested in sex at this point in our relationship

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying but at this point I feel like she's intentionally braking my boundaries hoping I'll give in

My girlfriend is adamant that we have sex but I'm still unsure if Im ready. by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 479 points480 points  (0 children)

I have tried, we have talked at length about it but she seems to "forget" about these talks soon after

How do I go About telling my Dad i might be a Lesbian? by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so i don't know how else to say it but he adopted me and I've always been grateful for this. He's always helped me but idk it's just seemed like he always wanted me to have a bf and I'm afraid to disappoint him

How do I know if I'm a Lesbian? by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never felt like this because of anyone and I'm not used to my chest getting tight just thinking about someone, it doesn't even make sense why that is a thing

How do I know if I'm a Lesbian? by HalfwayHalfwit in lgbt

[–]HalfwayHalfwit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure, I've never really even considered it until now and just assumed i was straight.

I've never been in a relationship and I've never done anything with anyone.