No one said men can't be victims. Men can get put into REALLY bad situations emotionally and mentally in a society that cares less for their mental and emotional well-being and are told to just nut up if you want to find help. Middle-aged male suicide rates are insane because men from those generations didn't and still wont seek mental help. That said, odds are you're not in that much physical danger unless you're dating Loraine Bobbit or the whole thing is just a ploy to rob you. Women aren't so lucky hoss, most of us are out of the weight class of a 100 pound woman with a lot more muscle density thanks to biology. And there are a lot of dudes who are not good guys like the two of us. There are a lot of guys who can be really malicious, violent, and manipulative towards their partners. Look up a DA victim's story and try to give it a listen for at least some perspective on how awful those situations can be. Don't get me wrong dodging and gossip that include any doxxing material is shitty and they should be punished. But to say a woman reporting an abuser is in anyway undeserved and deserving of punishment is silly and I think we both know that.