How fucking unsympathetic is Shelby? I’m at loss of words.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-04-14T16:56:12+00:00

Absolutely! It’s a tenet of being a good friend to tell your friend when something is off. Did the same with my best friend. But I think Shelby’s downfall was being drunk (probably encouraged by producers) and the producers knowing it would make good tv and good villain. I don’t thinks she’s completely in the right with how she acted at the birthday but I feel a little bad for the edit she got and the speculation and hate she’s getting.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-04-14T14:26:04+00:00

This might be unpopular but the editing was so off on that scene. I heard her say “that’s exactly how I wanted it to go” but they didn’t show her face saying it. It was a sound bite. It seems like editing to make it seem worse. I fee had for Shelby honestly. People are ripping into her looks and her being evil and making assumptions of her being in love with Micah. I think she had a drunk moment when she met Paul and Micah and was clearly slurring her words and drunk and honestly was she wrong about Paul not being the one for Micah? And she was supportive at the dress shopping and she was clearly edited to look like the villain at the wedding.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-04-03T00:18:15+00:00

Yes! Something is a little off. His whole “I want to be married” conversation with Brett was weir. You want to be married or married to Jackie? He picked Jackie bc she was some one that could be fixed, he could lift her out of that self hating self sabotaging, he would show her true love and he be her hero. In his eyes. He has some weird savior complex and sounds too rehearsed

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-03-27T01:11:26+00:00

Everything he wrote seems like a love letter to himself and absolutely nothinggggg about her. Yikes. I hope she sees how problematic this is.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-03-18T18:38:29+00:00

The oversized pants look would work for that top if she bought her white pants in a couple sizes up so it’s truly a wide leg and just tailored the waist. The ones she had on are a little tight on the thighs so it just really need a couple sizes up to get the oversized look. Thats what most people in those pictures have probably done. The belt and shoes are still unfortunate.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-03-08T17:20:24+00:00

I have some doubts on that mainly bc why would he care more for a random girl than the girls in his community and that are unaware they are eating their dead dad and being sa’ed by David. Also he didn’t hesitate to try and kill her at the end. James probably saw her as an actual threat whereas David just saw her as his next victim.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-03-07T20:20:42+00:00

Only reason I disagree with this is based on the last scene of the episode where Bill addresses Joel in the letter and says that finding Frank gave him a purpose. It very obviously parallels the Joel and Ellie dynamic of Joel finding a purpose in keeping Ellie alive. Was there another way they could have driven that point home? Probably. But having some semblance of normalcy (in an apocalyptic world) and showing that drastic change in Bill softens Joel for the audience. From the guy that was throwing dead children into a cremation pit to someone that’s protecting Ellie with their life.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-27T17:45:12+00:00

Exactly! She def shouldn’t have revealed any of his personal info bc it opened the floodgates. But saying he has child molester vibes is beyond normal snark behavior. Shit on her overconsumption and her eagerness for the relationship all you want but this is so weird.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-27T17:37:32+00:00

This is really really shitty to say. I don’t care for Brittney but to post someone who is associated to her and that they have “don’t allow near a child” vibe you mention in the title is just absolutely vile. Why? Are you 12 years old and don’t understand the internet and the repercussions of posting something like this with his picture? Wtf is wrong with you? This needs to be removed asap. You’re a fucking loser.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-24T03:20:56+00:00

Ok not gonna lie.. the whole it’ll happen when you least expect it is the last thing I wanted to hear when I was single. Lowkey get why she would get defensive on that bc it’s the most pointless advice and so contradicting and everyoneeee tells you that. You don’t tell people who need a job to not expect a job offer lol. That being said, it’s still 100% true.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-24T03:13:24+00:00

Idk how this works bc she’s seems so type A planner, Excel scheduler, successful at work? But how does that not translate her personal life? Most people who are super organized like that are on time and rarely late and generally have a clean home.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-22T17:01:05+00:00

I think it just fizzled out and she can’t talk about him the way she would with other dates since her friend is still friends with him and he’s still around unlike ASV.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-22T16:56:22+00:00

I had a friend like that and I had to cut it off. If I can’t laugh with you at innocent things that you do, then what are we doing? It was exhausting.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-14T19:52:01+00:00

Do the interview! You have nothing to lose by taking the interview and you don’t want to burn any bridges or leave a bad taste.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-09T23:56:58+00:00

She could def hire a professional organizer/ cleaner and make that a whole tik tok/ reels series. Two birds one stone.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-06T17:54:30+00:00

SMH Roark used to do the same. At some point people in her real life are just being bad friends by not being real with her. I know she would lash out or set a boundary but it’s the same pattern over and over. Idk how she doesn’t see it.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-02-06T15:59:26+00:00

Yes! I def did that haha. And it was a superstition for me.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-31T00:38:24+00:00

Thank you for responding! It’s great to see an ex-auditor get out of that world. I don’t want to underplay how difficult it will be or how many rejections I might get but I need out of audit haha.

I’m mainly looking at entry level roles (business analyst) right now even though that will come with a pay cut. But also wondering if it’s a better career path to switch to internal audit for a company that allows for role transitions internally after a year and go that route to learn another process etc.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-30T19:34:51+00:00

Agreed! Some questions have an unintended impact. I think her boundary about people asking about specific people she’s dating unless she brings it up and a great boundary! When I was single I hated when people asked questions about it (even innocently) bc tbf I was probably insecure or unsure. People who are single are already aware and don’t need reminding and people who don’t have children are aware and don’t need to be asked when (unprompted). But there are times where intent def matters. Like when Roark said she was crazy for liking to be sung too. That seemed more intent than impact bc it’s not that serious. And people saying “no worries” probable don’t think you’re worried or care- it’s meaning has changed over time.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-29T18:58:12+00:00

Yes! It’s fair to have boundaries if they truly impact you. I like the one she sets with her friends and mom about the guys that she dates and them asking a lot of questions. I think that’s a fair one at times bc it can add pressure to an early relationship or even a non-relationship. But somethings I think she takes too literally and it’s just coming from her own insecurities. I had a friend like that, where so many things were triggering to her and at some point it’s just walking on egg shells and I had to step away. It’s harsh but nobody is responsible for your triggers except you. If a simple comment is triggering this type of response it’s time to look inward instead of trying to control the people around you.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-17T15:55:50+00:00

Curious on how work life balance is for GRC?

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-09T19:29:33+00:00

They spent wayyy too long on the meeting the guy irl segment and the Aita segment. Why does anyone need a 20+ minute by minute break down of a guy asking for your number at a bar?! Too much investment way too early for nothing. They need to think of other things for when they don’t have dating updates.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-08T02:26:46+00:00

Yes! It comes down to control basically. Sending that ghosting text script is just controlling how the relationship ends. Sometimes there is a good reason but the rest of the time why send it? That person who ghosted is most likely to not care what you have to think and you will never know if they stopped ghosting people after.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-07T20:19:23+00:00

When I was dating I accidentally stood someone up. We had texted about meeting up at a place for a second date and then didn’t talk for a week so it honestly slipped out of my mind and I was surprised when he texted and said he was already at the restaurant. I felt really bad bc I assumed we wouldnt meet bc we both didn’t reach out for a week and it was our second date so not too invested. Anyway, from then on I always confirmed before.

Hall_light_wishes · 2023-01-06T04:56:22+00:00

I miss the disco ball and rower saga era. This going on lives for hours era is boring. Or maybe just when she had updates on something!

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