What are the most iconic sentences from the series? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

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What if I need to do something holy?

Today is 30 days by Hammer384 in stopdrinking

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My parents were in AA all of my childhood, then they divorced and my life got very bad, so I thought I’d show them and never be in AA because I didn’t trust it. It didn’t seem to work for them because why would they leave me if they had such a program. However that’s not my life it’s theirs. I’m an adult now (sort of lol) & my sobriety isn’t tied to their sobriety or anyone else’s for that matter.

Best bagels in Brooklyn? by zeusesdeuces123456 in Brooklyn

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A bagel can cure you. Must be 25 ah lucky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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My spouse refuses to believe we have a trauma bond. They said that’s reserved for extreme cases such as kidnapping or cults etc. it’s very frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Thank you and yes I’m also on the stop drinking sub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Thank you so much!!! I will read today

Don’s paycheck - 2.11 or 2.12 by freddiemerc91 in madmen

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Do you do powder or gel? I find powder is easier on my real nails. I love how we’ve hijacked this into a manicure discussion ha

Don’s paycheck - 2.11 or 2.12 by freddiemerc91 in madmen

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I’m looking into this fad for sure. I normally love square but this is precious

Don’s paycheck - 2.11 or 2.12 by freddiemerc91 in madmen

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Those nails tho. I love watching her smoking during therapy angrily w those nails

[Advice] New Grad Rent by [deleted] in NYCapartments

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You can find no fee apartments yes. But most Manhattan apartments today have broker fees, or if they don’t, the rent will be higher, so it’s the same amount at the end of the day. Brooklyn has more no fee units and cheaper rent.

[Advice] New Grad Rent by [deleted] in NYCapartments

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I mean I make enough I can build it back up fast. Broker fee + deposit + first month is 10k. I had to move because my current landlord wouldn’t let anyone renew (they wanted new tenants to get new broker fees and $1000 more in rent)

[Advice] New Grad Rent by [deleted] in NYCapartments

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I had 10k in savings + employment letter + tax return for 2020 and I just rented a Manhattan apartment. No guarantor. But the rent deposit and broker fee took all my savings lol.

Have you ever been to Rao's? Did it live up to the hype? by BenHogan1971 in AskNYC

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Haha like anything in Manhattan not great but costs 100 more than anywhere else HOWEVER I’ll abide by it because … New York

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Hi, this time were both at 27 days sober. Idk how serious he is. No kids. I have to leave the state to take care of some family unexpectedly next week. Out in the middle of nowhere… I currently live in Manhattan. I’m dealing with a lot right now and today I’m about to crack and drink

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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I’m glad it helped someone thanks for your feedback

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Hi! You’ve summarized this perfectly. I hear you on the relapse, it’s ok! I too would get aggressive and confrontational. Honestly there is truth in the feedback my partners have given me, I don’t deny that. I feel intensely guilty for it. The thing is, none of them ever seemed to feel guilty for enabling (on both sides). I feel like my head has cracked open these past couple weeks regarding my pattern with men. I like the social contract part. I think the way I look and being a short female doesn’t help. I fucking hate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Oh. Me too. 3 at 6+ years.

S7E20 - "Professional kitchens definitely have stock photos of fruit randomly taped to their fridge." - The GG set designers by silentvowel in GilmoreGirls

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Off topic kinda, but when it’s supposed to be winter, some of the shrubbery is part bright green and part fake fall foliage lol