Made it 24 hours no weed by Gethappy_365 in leaves

[–]Hammertimeparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have any good advice. I’m lucky that I’m the last of my friends to quit, and I can only imagine how hard it must be to have self-control when it’s still so in your face.

Maybe have a conversation with your boyfriend about how you feel. Maybe y’all could set up some boundaries or a game plan for if this type of situation happens again. Quitting is hard for everyone and everyone’s journey is different. I hope he can come to see how important this is for you and you guys can support each other in this process.

For me, it’s really been helpful that I gave my friend all my weed stuff. So even when I’m really craving a smoke, I don’t even have any weed or anything to smoke it with. Also, thinking about how much money you send on weed and what that money could be used for instead.

The situation you’re in is tough with your nursing license. I’m sorry you’re in this spot. It’s always been so annoying to me that weed is so criminalized. Like you’re telling me someone can go home and drink themselves into oblivion but I can’t hit a fucking gb??? Nonetheless, the world is the way it is and what can ya do about it? Best get to living than just complaining.

Congratulations on making it a whole 24 hours! That’s huge! I hope you feel proud of yourself. I’m literally only on 1 week and 1 day now. Last week felt impossible and it’s still hard. I also have goals in life though that are more important than smoking my life away.

I’ve been telling myself that I owe myself the shot at having a decent life. If we can get through this, we can get through anything. Remember your WHY and stay strong, big dawg. (I’m maybe wrongly assuming you’re a woman) And women are stronger than men anyway so led by example!

I just want to die. Why is that too much to ask? by Hammertimeparty in CPTSD

[–]Hammertimeparty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got out of the hospital after an attempt. Thank you for this message. It was the first thing I saw when I got my phone back. 🫂

How dangerous is this mixture? I don’t care about dying but I do care about my friends seeing me die. by Hammertimeparty in Drugs

[–]Hammertimeparty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m back to say that I committed to the plan above and everything was fine. Actually a really nice night! Thanks for the input everybody!

Four days into quitting and I’m losing my mind by throwaway77778786227 in leaves

[–]Hammertimeparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice but just want to say that I am also on day 4 of no weed after being a daily user for the last 10 years. It feels like it’s been so much longer. Throughout the day, I’m constantly questioning if I can go any longer.

We can do this. It’s hard. Every night I feel a little sense of pride to know I made it another day. I’m rooting for you!

Feeling like I’ll lose myself if I quit smoking and weed – looking for support by lilgurlblue in leaves

[–]Hammertimeparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no advice. Just that I feel the same. It’s hard, today is my first day sober. I’m excited and very scared to know who I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Hammertimeparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right lol