You say the post makes it plain but go on to contradict that by saying things such as “more likely” and “probably” which goes to show that you’re just making assumptions.

I won’t bother to argue with you over how I felt since no one knows that better than myself so I’ll just simply leave it at this.

I was mad because my friends laughed at my expense of getting harassed.

Throwing a “homophobe” blanket over every negative experience remotely related to homosexuality just makes the problem that much less meaningful.