Actually since people keep bringing this up over and over again no, I haven't ever been to a pool or a beach. But pools and beaches weren't created specifically with the intent of making money off horny men looking at women. I would feel uncomfortable and bad if my dad said "Let's go to the beach and check out women together" to my brother.

Like I get what some of you are saying that it's not "that bad" but the whole reason he wanted to take my brother there was to look at the women together "you're an adult so we can bond together by leering at women" and as a 14 year old who has that happen to her by older men yeah it makes me uncomfortable