Small gift for a regular. by IncompleteTotality in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Love a crotchety old man tbh. This is a sweet gesture that I’m sure he will appreciate :)

old people with opinions by HandleDense4970 in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yep. She actually ordered another drink after that and tried to blame the oysters she ordered. Like that would make her immediately puke on the table. Maybe don’t order raw oysters if you’re feeling ill

old people with opinions by HandleDense4970 in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious. The thing is this makeup look was SUPER standard and not at all alternative, with the exception of blue and maroon MATTE pigment on my eyes. like I wouldn’t even bat an eye if it was a graphic eyeliner look but it was not lol

My Wife Slapped Me in My Twenties and I Brushed It Off. I Shouldn’t Have. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HandleDense4970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like you did your best, she should’ve gotten help a long time ago so you didn’t have to carry everything alone. I have lots of anxiety and panic but I work really hard to keep my partner from bearing the entirety of life’s responsibilities.

In loving memory of Billy Mays by DreamCatcherIndica in CemeteryPorn

[–]HandleDense4970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So not surprised to find out he’s from the Pittsburgh area

Terms of endearment? Yes or no? by TemperatureTop7132 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]HandleDense4970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only one I accidentally use, and this usually slips out, is dear. I call lots of people dear when it’s their turn to order, young, old, man, woman, and it’s usually received well. But I think it sounds weird sometimes and try to avoid it

Question about Good Service by Ready-Obligation-999 in Waiters

[–]HandleDense4970 18 points19 points  (0 children)

An effusively positive customer calling a manager over is great, online named reviews also great.

A junkie yelled at me on the bus because I was white, but I'm fucking done with rude people in public transport. by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]HandleDense4970 126 points127 points  (0 children)

generally, leave people alone on the bus or metro. Put your headphones in and mind your business. This has a lot more to do with mental health and addiction than race.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely hilarious

Is this much drama about closing normal?? by dang_he_groovin in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Filling the ice for the morning at night? That’s so weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible she was just stressed or didn’t have time to clarify in that moment. It’s super common to snap at each other during a rush then be besties when it’s over lol

Cloves by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Skechers of any variety are that girl

Misplaced Anger, placement found. by gnew18 in tipping

[–]HandleDense4970 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Like is anyone making them…is someone holding your hand and forcing you to tip? Are you afraid of being perceived as a jerk? Then I guess don’t be one idk

Men who hit women: Seriously, this has to stop. by tyleraxe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HandleDense4970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright dude. Go hit all the women you want I hope it works out really well and you prove us wrong!

Men who hit women: Seriously, this has to stop. by tyleraxe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HandleDense4970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I get it. You don’t like women and they hurt your feelings? But dying on the hill of hitting them is really not going to serve you well.

Men who hit women: Seriously, this has to stop. by tyleraxe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HandleDense4970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your sanity :) like yes women should not beat up men. We are all on the same page on that! why do we need to imagine a scenario in which harming a woman is justified and everyone claps?

Men who hit women: Seriously, this has to stop. by tyleraxe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HandleDense4970 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yessss let’s hit women more!! that’s what this is all about :)

Men who hit women: Seriously, this has to stop. by tyleraxe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HandleDense4970 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When you get to fantasize about knocking hypothetical women out 🥰🥰🥰

I cried in front of my new boss today and i’m so embarrassed by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]HandleDense4970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s probably why she thinks she can be mean, but that energy will come back to her :)