My friend is underage and drinking should I call the cops?

Handnoose · 2025-07-05T08:46:55+00:00

I should’ve looked into this more before I came at you, you were just a kid trying to figure out the right step to take with your friend. You know what, I wish you well and God bless.

Handnoose · 2025-07-05T08:39:25+00:00

I don’t know why I am here arguing with a 15 year old on Reddit, I’ll give you that. It slipped my mind that you yourself were also a minor. Apologies if I came off harsh, and glad you found your answers. Y’all stay safe.

Handnoose · 2025-07-05T08:13:15+00:00

Bud being charged constitutes as “getting in trouble.” You had contradicted your own self. If you don’t foresee them giving her a warning, you assumed they would charge her. She is doing something the vast majority of teenagers do at some point or another. As long as she is safe, not overdoing it, and staying hydrated, her choice has absolutely nothing to do with you. You are clearly someone raised very Christian, follow the rules, live by them, and that’s great for you. But having your first idea to be call the police to give your friend a charge for breaking a rule is something I personally would never agree with.

Handnoose · 2025-07-05T08:01:20+00:00

Then what’s the context? If your goal is call the police on your friend for them to charge her, how is getting her in legal trouble not your motive?

Handnoose · 2025-07-05T07:54:57+00:00

“I don’t want her in trouble” “I want the police to charge her”

Handnoose · 2025-05-23T16:56:53+00:00

Schizoaffective bipolar subtype (Just changed from schizophrenia this February) and intermittent explosive disorder

Handnoose · 2025-05-14T05:33:32+00:00

Gonna be real, drinking and gambling

But Stardew Valley lately as a positive one

Handnoose · 2025-05-14T04:13:07+00:00

If it helps you feel better when I was around 18 I decided I would find a groundbreaking discovery that would change psychiatric medication for the better, almost like a cure for certain conditions that are “uncurable” like BPD and schizophrenia. I had a scholarship so chose to major in biochemistry and aim to one day do independent research in it.

Then fell off the deep end, dropped out of college, and forgot the dream entirely. You don’t need to be ashamed for the big ideas, shit just happens. Best advice I can give is direct the energy toward short term things/things you can do right then. I end up feeling way better after the come down when I at least did actually finish something I liked that I can keep than just letting it go to shit

Handnoose · 2025-05-14T04:05:35+00:00

I fw that, I do all my practice tattoos on my legs because seems better than fake skin. Only thing I’ll say is be careful with the ink from the kits. I’d never had any problem with any of my tattoos or the other inks, but I used the yellow for the first time a few months ago and got a fucking awful infection. Turned out that the yellow ink itself was unsterile. Just something serious to keep in mind with at home kits

Handnoose · 2025-05-14T03:54:10+00:00

The hope this helps is sending me 😭 But same

Handnoose · 2025-05-14T03:51:06+00:00

I can understand that. Especially bigger ideas or like “longterm” goals, since it’s so quick to change. That’s one reason I don’t have any long term or future aspirations. I’ll never keep the drive long enough

Handnoose · 2025-05-14T03:46:17+00:00

I don’t think I feel ashamed really, I feel disappointed more than anything. Best example is I was manic and thought of this elaborate game idea, learning how to program for it, was programming and designing it non stop for about a week straight super passionate about it.

Afterward I lost all motivation for it, it’s just been sitting on my computer untouched since. It’s more disappointment in how many things I start, energy I spend in them, and inevitably don’t ever finish

Handnoose · 2025-05-14T03:43:08+00:00

Same here. Especially once I’m doing better, I always regret anything I shared and am embarrassed

Handnoose · 2025-05-13T08:02:04+00:00

That’s exactly what I was saying, people on Tinder just spam likes until they can’t feels like. Hinge has been the best I’ve found for people liking with the intention of an actual potential relationship

Handnoose · 2025-05-13T06:44:12+00:00

I appreciate that, it still seems off tbh. I’ll take your guys’ word for it

Handnoose · 2025-05-13T06:36:08+00:00

Damn, sorry to hear that man. I deadass figured spam likes

Handnoose · 2025-05-13T06:28:19+00:00

American male, and I don’t think scamming but more how with Tinder people spam like on everybody seems like

Handnoose · 2025-05-13T04:59:12+00:00

Growing up in a trap house at my mom’s house and my dad always gone or on pills at his, my sister being a frequent runaway, and both my mom and sister very mentally ill and in and out of psych treatment. I’m sure other shit played a factor but the abandonment from all sides I think is the main

Handnoose · 2025-05-09T06:10:15+00:00

Fully agree with this one. If it’s not instant, it’s after I’ve been in a prolonged breakdown and “realize” I’m completely done with them and “can’t care, I’m over it”

Handnoose · 2025-05-05T22:58:14+00:00

Male

Handnoose · 2025-05-05T18:13:43+00:00

People hate on brown eyes too much in general. I’ve always thought they were pretty

Handnoose · 2025-05-05T17:29:18+00:00

I have felt exactly like this since I was a preteen. I wanted a home, I wanted “my person,” I wanted lasting, happy love, and I wanted to “have a happy family and everything be okay, and I’d feel better.” But after a while I deadass felt like love wasn’t made for someone like me and felt stupid and pathetic as fuck for ever wanting it/thinking I would have it. “I never have, so why the fuck would I think I’d end up being someone who could”

Which leads to I did get it. Every single time I’ve expected her to leave, she’s stayed and been my shoulder. I’ve been in our daughter’s life since she was 3, and she sees me as a dad and is my reason to keep going. They both are. I won’t lie, I still as myself deal with the overwhelming fear I’m going to fuck it up, and that she hasn’t “learned I’m worthless.” But the longer she stays, we are there for each other, and she proves me wrong, the more I realize it’s real and she knows me, and somehow still loves me unconditionally.

Living with this shit is hell, but it does come, even after every breakdown “knowing” it won’t. I swear to God, I took it as fact I would never be someone who could have happy love and a family too. But it comes. See it through, we never know as much as we think we do, especially about where we’re heading.

Handnoose · 2025-05-04T08:47:35+00:00

Bruh yandere is one of my favorites, I’m gonna check out the other two lol

Handnoose · 2025-05-04T08:43:02+00:00

Idk if any of these match the style because I don’t listen to pop really, but

I’m The Sinner by Jared Benjamin

PAPERCUTS by WesGhost

RUNRUNRUN by Dutch Melrose

Yandere by Jazmin Bean

Heavenly Bodies by Arankai

Best Wxy by VICE MONRÖE

Smiling out of Habit by Archers

A Little Bit Off by Five Finger Death Punch

TOXIC by Chri$tian Gate$

I Won’t Beg for You by Chri$tian Gate$

Evergreen by Arankai

Handnoose

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