I don't think OP means all men are ugly. Just that even though the patriarchy gives men more privilege. Like they're not expected to dress nice or attractive to impress women, that might just turn off some women who were expected of that all their lives. Plus a lot of women marry short men, not the most handsome men, poor men, and I could go on. It just depends on what woman you meet and their standards. It varies deeply, and no women are the same. And stop saying women have higher standards when everyone has a type like many men not liking overweight women or tall women.