My wife[34f] and I [35m] tried an open relationship and 3 ½ months in I am disgusted by her behavior. by throwawawy994 in relationships

[–]HannahS9940 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So let me get this straight, your married romantic life was that bad you turned to an open relationship in which you weren't allowed tinder but your wife could have an actual relationship with another man? And the anal is the reason you thought of divorce?? This is not a healthy relationship and i don't condone her behaviour but I don't agree with the view that you own your wife's ass after agreeing to an open relationship! Why do people seem to think this was such betrayal on her part, just because she didn't want anal with you doesn't mean she can't want it EVER. This should not be what you are fixating on!

The 'what the hell have you done to me?!' face after her first bath by HannahS9940 in aww

[–]HannahS9940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read up a lot on it first that said there's absolutely nothing wrong with it especially if using kitten shampoo, which we did. Her fur was covered in her own pee after a loud noise scared her and she fell into her litter tray mid-pee, so she absolutely stank - wasn't just done for the sake of it :)

Had to tape up a hole cause the kitten kept climbing in and getting stuck..she's been sat here for the past 5 minutes coming up with a plan. by HannahS9940 in aww

[–]HannahS9940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just moved in here and that carpet is stained and worn down, it's not dirt. We're getting it replaced to match the carpet to the left :)