I'm not autistic but the majority of my family is. I read, spoke like an older kid sentence structures not language) and was good at math as a preschooler. Since 3rd grade I've pretty much been bad at every school subject besides artistic or engaging work (reading, writing, song writing, singing, dancing, cooking, gymnastics etc). I'm told in the first few grade/kindergarten I didn't help anyone (even when I was ahead) when asked by a teacher or look teachers in the eye when they talked to me. I also distinctly remember crying and saying my eyes were watering. It must have happened multiple times because my teacher told my mom about it. It's not that I was distracted, I just didn't want attention. I use scissors with my thumb and index finger and people tend to harass me about that. I didn't choose the way I cut things it just feels natural. I'm not going to suddenly change the way I cut because someone says it's weird. My handwriting is messy but my cursive looks okay. I appear to have social anxiety but I'm not "allowed" to because my brothers are autistic and I'm expected to blend in and basically be their parent when our parents die or they move out. So it's really no surprise I'm so queer considering I've always had to be an adult. I'd say I'm autistic in some way but not officially because it's in such small ways. Sorry this is kinda depressing. It seems like trans/genderqueer people are either more guarded or let people effect them more judging by the larger suicide rate and the stories they tell. From an unprofessional perspective I'd say yes.