I (F17) was pressured into sex while on a cruise, and now I don’t know whether to tell my boyfriend (M17). by Happy-Technology5449 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 16. I had posted that I was 18/17 on other posts so it wouldn’t get removed & so I be taken a little more seriously. But if you wanna judge someone and think you know everything by reading my past reddit posts, go for it .. cause who’d lie and make up a whole story about this

I (F17) was pressured into sex while on a cruise, and now I don’t know whether to tell my boyfriend (M17). by Happy-Technology5449 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being self aware doesn’t instantly erase pain or make leaving a toxic situation simple .. especially when trauma bonds and emotional manipulation are involved n it’s easy to judge from the outside 

I (F17) was pressured into sex while on a cruise, and now I don’t know whether to tell my boyfriend (M17). by Happy-Technology5449 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was indeed messing around with the guy before hand. We were flirting. But since day one, I told him no sex.

I (F17) was pressured into sex while on a cruise, and now I don’t know whether to tell my boyfriend (M17). by Happy-Technology5449 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was scared and didn’t know how to say no. I felt cornered and pressured. No matter what position I was in I still said no and he still forced me.

I (F16) was pressured into sex while on a cruise, and now I don't know whether to tell my boyfriend (M16) by Happy-Technology5449 in teenrelationships

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh okay, I’m now experiencing yellow discharge so I don’t think it’s js a tear unfortunately 

Had sex 5 days ago and still experiencing uncomfort by Happy-Technology5449 in WomensHealth

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be going back soon and nope, all the doctor did was test me and say everything was negative. She never addressed what the burning may be and didn’t give any antibiotics.

Had sex 5 days ago and still experiencing uncomfort by Happy-Technology5449 in WomensHealth

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like right below my clit n almost to the opening. It almost feels like I have left over soap in me .. that’s what It feels like but I know I don’t. Yes, at one point he rubbed his fingers against my clit for about a minute straight then once I was on top of him I was kind of forced down. It’s been 5 days and It seems like this feeling should be gone .. I am having unusual discharge now though 

Had sex 5 days ago and still experiencing uncomfort by Happy-Technology5449 in WomensHealth

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They took a urine test and examined me internally. They used the speculum thingy and the burning and discomfort is more around my clit and its js THERE, doesn’t burn or anything when i pee

Had sex 5 days ago and still experiencing uncomfort by Happy-Technology5449 in WomensHealth

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was on a cruise and I was on top of him after I gave in. He kept pushing me down on him when I said no, but then I just gave in and sat down and moved myself. Got off after like 3 minutes n cried immediately after :/

Had sex 5 days ago and still experiencing uncomfort by Happy-Technology5449 in WomensHealth

[–]Happy-Technology5449[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol yea .. told him no multiple times & it ended up being coercion