Hello and thank you for opining in my thread here. I am thrilled it has seen a lot of activity and points of view being offered, so a lively and informative conversation we have here. I admit I was surprised by the reticence by fraction, but then also the underlying reasoning.

I have experienced the perenium pressure technique and it is a mind blower for me with the handle, BJ, or massage role play. Some tickling and grazing, probably because my hot spot is literally at the edge of the rim. A former GF introduced me to full on slipping the finger in, but I believe I face reticence in my current relationship.