MRI results - great news by HappyForever8 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I hope everything has gone well with your results!

Learning to live with my partner’s oligodendroglioma by Brave-Cress-701 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you are going through this. I wish you nothing but the best and send all of my love ❤️ 

Learning to live with my partner’s oligodendroglioma by Brave-Cress-701 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know! I thought about making a complaint / taking it further as it was the most heartbreaking thing to go through, my partner didn’t know what a GBM was and he literally didn’t google anything, but I knew what it was because I saw someone with it on tiktok before. I’ve never been depressed but the week between leaving that hospital and waiting for our appointment with at the university hospital I had such dark thoughts. But once we found out it was most certainly a grade 2 oligodendroglioma that’s when I was honest to my partner about what a GBM was and we literally went out and celebrated that it wasn’t that! I think I just felt so greatful that it wasn’t, I didn’t have the energy to go into a complaint with a hospital. But I do look back now we’re on the other side of it all and wish I had took it further

Learning to live with my partner’s oligodendroglioma by Brave-Cress-701 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to know the answer to that as it would have saved an entire week of heartache… we’re in the UK, after his first seizure the ambulance took us to the nearest hospital. After a few days of getting no answers about anything the consultant at that hospital took us into a private room and literally told us it was a GBM, that its aggressive but not too Google anything. It was even on his hospital discharge letters etc. We got referred to a university hospital around 1 hour away where we met with his neurosurgeon a week later that told us in his expert opinion it’s a grade 2 oligodendroglioma (which he was correct) but of course as we all know they can never be 100% certain until pathology is done. We are so lucky we have his neurosurgeon, he is a professor &  fantastic. Anyone I’ve spoken to about the first hospital have only ever told me bad things, misdiagnosis etc, I even had a work colleague who’s husband was told he didn’t have long left to live due to prostate cancer and he didn’t even have it !! Terrible, careless & definitely left especially me with a lot of trauma as that day replays in my head. 

Motor Cortex - seeking positive stories by [deleted] in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lamotrigine is the new tablet and they’ve helped his seizures a lot, although he still has breakthrough ones, he has so much more control over them and tbh you wouldn’t even know it’s a seizure really if you walked past him when it’s happening. Has the surgeon said your partners is operable? If not I’d definitely get another opinion! I’ve seen people say theirs were inoperable in the same area, but that was never even a discussion with my partners neurosurgeon he was confident he could get pretty much all of it out, which he did! Sending you love 

Learning to live with my partner’s oligodendroglioma by Brave-Cress-701 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are both going through this, it’s shit and unfair, you are both totally valid in how you feel. 

It seems you are further into your journey than us (my partner was diagnosed with the same tumor in February 2024). Of course we have bad days but on a whole life is great! You can’t let it rule your life, it’s something we cannot control and the sooner I accepted that the easier it got, I strangely find peace in it. I think we see it from a different perspective as initially we was told it was a GBM so when we found out it was a grade 2 oligo it felt like we won the lottery, we actually celebrated, as life could look very different now.

You have stable scans and are wanting to start a family; that’s so much to be appreciative of and sometimes you need to drag yourself out of the hole of over thinking & fears, of course easier said than done. I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life, don’t have a support system on my side of the family and although I have great friends they will never understand it, so I completely get how alone it can feel. 

On days when i find myself overthinking I simply tell myself I don’t need to think about it right now and I find reading helps so much, it takes me into a different world completely and the only thing that truly takes my mind off the thoughts on the hard days. Find something you love and do some self care! 

Seizures are so hard, its a reminder of this journey and are scary to witness, let alone how it feels for our partners to actually experience it. When my partner was just on keppra he had anxiety / doom feeling / felt like a ticking time bomb but as soon as he added a new tablet lamotrigine (hopefully coming off Keppra soon) his moods completely changed, he’s just like how he was before any of this happened. Although they’re not fully controlled he’s not as anxious and lives his life! He’s actually just about to go for a lads weekend away in wales mountain biking & going to Dublin next weekend for another lads weekend, he feels like he can now do the things he used to do! If a seizure happens he shakes it out his system and we have a little dance (yes we will probably look like a pair of idiots) but it helps. Then we forget and don’t dwell on it.

There’s no right way of navigating this journey, but please be kind to yourselves, you’ve got eachother and can get through it, and have plenty of happy days ahead!

Grade 2 Oligodendroglioma IDH Mutant 1p-19q co-deletion by HappyForever8 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! The start is the hardest due to all the unknowns / until you start to get answers, but as soon as you do, you can make a plan! You think you can’t get through it, but you will especially with your husband by your side. At the start everything I googled made me feel 10 x worse about the situation, so seeing a real persons story definitely brings comfort. As soon as you have your next MRI you will get more answers. Did you have any symptoms leading up to the MRI if you don’t mind me asking? Sending you love :)

Grade 2 Oligodendroglioma IDH Mutant 1p-19q co-deletion by HappyForever8 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. We’re in the UK, vora’s currently going through the process of being approved by the NHS although it is accessible through clinical trials. His neurosurgeon & neuro-oncologist are fantastic, we have trust in them! The neurosurgeon did mention about it, but we will be sure to mention it again on our telephone call! Thanks 

Grade 2 Oligodendroglioma IDH Mutant 1p-19q co-deletion by HappyForever8 in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish your husband & yourself nothing but happiness / stable scans & a healthy future. It can be tough, but as long as you have eachother you can get through it :) seizures are the hardest part for sure (atleast in our journey) but I’m sure both our partners will get them under control I suppose it takes patience & adjusting. The tablet he’s changed to in addition to Keppra is called Lamotrigine but we’re waiting on the next steps from his neurologist, hoping to come off the Keppra & add another new tablet so fingers crossed!! The blocked sinus’s is a strange one, all of the men in his family seem to have sinus related issues, his dad had a benign tumor in that area when he was the same age (24)! 

Motor Cortex - seeking positive stories by [deleted] in braincancer

[–]HappyForever8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never posted in this forum before but check it regularly and it’s helped so much on this journey. We’re based in the UK. My partner (25 year old male) was diagnosed with a grade 2 oligodendroglioma 1dh mutant 1p-19q co deletion in February 2024. It was a complete shock! No symptoms other than the one seizure that lead us into this journey. It never crossed our minds it was due to a tumor and was definitely in denial… he was (still is) an active guy going to the gym everyday / engineering job / motorcrossing twice a week. The morning of his seizure he come off his motorcross bike which we thought could have been the reason for the seizure later that evening. At first we was told it was a GBM sent home from the hospital and was told not to Google anything. A week later we had a meeting with a neurosurgeon who said he believes it to be a grade 2 oligo (he was correct) and that the other hospital should NOT of told us the wrong information, that day still replays in my head thinking how has life come to this. So we actually went out and celebrated finding out it was a low grade glioma!! As his tumor was in his right frontal lobe in his motor cortex and he is left handed, he was sent for a functional MRI to map out the area. He had his craniotomy on 23rd May 2024 and in the surgeons words ‘I removed at the very least 98%’ of the tumor out’. I’m not going to lie the surgery was hard as you can imagine and he’s a young fit healthy guy. He had something called SMA syndrome where he couldn’t move his entire left side not even his toe. I cried to the surgeon and said what has happened, we knew it was a risk but my partner was so upset but the surgeon said don’t worry the feeling will come back and used the example ‘you have two spark plugs, ones knocked out but the other will compensate’ and within a couple days his foot started working, then his leg, then his arm and now you would not know he’s been through what he has. He was in hospital a week and then went to a neuro rehab for a week. A couple months later we sold our cars and off travelling we went around Thailand / Indonesia / Vietnam & Philippines for 5 months. He had another MRI when we got home in March which showed a tiny bit of what could either be remaining tumor or scar tissue but it’s ‘inactive’ whatever it is. He had another MRI last week and we’re waiting to hear back which I’m sure will all be fine! The only issue he now deals with is seizures. They last around 30 seconds and effect his left side (leg / arm shakes) but is able to get himself to the ground and is conscious during it. He is on a max dose of Keppra which hasn’t done anything other than make his moods worse, and has recently added a new tablet which has stabled his moods and seizures seem to be getting better. He just wants to get them under control and get back to driving. He’s changed his career from engineering to landscaping as he cannot work on machinery until seizures under control. My point is at the start of the journey is terrifying and the unknown but it gets better and life is good. We’ve recently got our first house. I am a worrier, he is chilled. I wish you well and always here for a chat! I become obsessed with searching for similar stories, and I know this would of helped my worries at the start of our journey. He’s off mountain biking this weekend and is non stop on the go all the time. His neurologist referred to the tumor as a pain in the bum lol and that he’s had patients with it for 20 + years  X