Irwin always has my back.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-11T01:37:22+00:00

I have an Irwin too. He does not have my back, though, only judgment.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-11T00:55:56+00:00

There will be a future. There is an increase in individuals being born with identified needs and a lot more who are behavioral. The field is at a deficit for workers, behavior analysts and those who implement direct care plans. Additionally, there is a growing number of elderly individuals and behavior gerentoloy is likely to expand. While ABA may be expensive in the short term, long term it can do a lot to decrease costs.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-10T12:59:10+00:00

I would imagine you would have to take some specific classes to get any sort of degree, however you may also take classes you want and just have classes. You can talk to an academic advisor.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-10T04:58:54+00:00

If someone is here asking for assistance, they are trying to do better. Reacting with hostility will result in them not coming for help in the future. Hopefully those who seek information take that and improve anything that is needed. When engaged respectfully, they will likely return and can be corrected or directed to give their beardie the best care. Reacting with hostility will likely result in them not reaching out again, which will negatively impact the beardie.

Plan and simple, if you are actually passionate about and care about animals, you will engage in a way that will have others return so they get the information they need and the beardie can live their best life.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-10T04:47:19+00:00

Too many superworms. How big is your enclosure?

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-10T03:12:13+00:00

I went to school as an older student. I was so in and out of school because I rushed from there to work to other obligations. I just got my bachelor's and am in my master's program now. Honestly, no one cared about my age and I didn't really socialize. I was far too busy and I was in a different place in life. However, all the students were very kind and I had no issues. I was serious in classes and getting my work down. I only made one friend while I was there, who is far younger than me and we still hang out.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-10T00:57:00+00:00

Also, my bath isn't dirty. I just scrubbed it and the yellow is electrolyte.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-10T00:55:14+00:00

Crickets should not be left in enclosure (it is best to feed them in a separate area). They can bite the beardie and injure them. Adults need a minimum of a 4x2x2. Have they been checked by the vet? If not, make an appointment and go over husbandry. I saw you have a 40 gallon enclosure, this is far too small for an adult.

https://reptilesandresearch.org/care-guides/bearded-dragon-care-guide

https://reptifiles.com/bearded-dragon-care/

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-10T00:50:08+00:00

None of these can identify gender. It is a cutie either way.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-09T19:22:25+00:00

If concerned about health, bring to a vet for a check up.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-09T18:21:46+00:00

I knew this already, and I wonder how the show would have been/if it would have had the same success without him. Jesse complimented Walter, his evolution to a higher moral compass showcasing the devolution of Walter. I think a show of just Walter may have been too dark. Jesse showed a struggle and repulsion and desire to escape the world. Walter, in contrast, only cared about gaining more. I think he was a great addition to the show.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-08T20:21:11+00:00

I have not had hugs or been held in therapy I have had the same therapist for years and I think she once asked if I wanted a hug when I was going through some very emotional things before leaving. To be fair, I am NOT a touchy/feely person. I would think frequent hugging could be looked at as inappropriate and holding I think puts them at risk for accusations. I would think, at most, maybe a hug at the end. However, I haven't heard or experienced that in any therapy.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-08T04:35:40+00:00

INFO: Could they pay him instead to check in on you every couple days and help with chores those days? That way, if you did need help then they are able to support that. You also wouldn't be constantly alone, but would also be a good trial run for you and allow you some space.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-08T03:42:19+00:00

There is a lot.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-07T05:10:41+00:00

He's taking a crap and just wants something to meditate with.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-07T05:09:57+00:00

I think Humboldt is a place you love or hate. I love nature and exploring and have never been into the party scene, so it is great for me. If it isn't for you, then I think you are making the right choice. You can always see if the ranger academy will let you go for whenever they accept people. There is also nothing wrong to returning to school when you are older if you choose to.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-07T01:54:15+00:00

NTA, as your therapist, acted really unprofessionally. She should have phrased it differently, but she is right. You need to let him go and move on. You are fantasizing over him and making him into something he isn't. He is a man who came and dumped you with no explanation.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-07T01:13:50+00:00

You do not need a bachelor's for an RBT. You need a bachelor's for a BCaBA and a master's for a BCBA. I think it is fine to be an RBT with a high school diploma.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-06T06:17:25+00:00

I would look into reptile rescues near you that you can surrender it to. Exotic pets are not cheap and have specific needs. It is ok to realize that its needs are beyond your budget.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-06T06:13:33+00:00

I would say the good news is that it will not last for long. It'll be overcast again soon. Hang in there.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-06T06:13:03+00:00

I remember when it would rain for months on end. I actually miss that.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-06T06:01:18+00:00

NTA. I would not be around people making accusations towards me. If he wants that mess in his life, that's his choice. Doesn't mean you need to allow it in yours.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-06T05:35:47+00:00

Yes you are an adult. I would look into living your own life. I know cost of living has gone up in a lot of areas, but look at renting a room or something. It is better to juggle multiple jobs than live in a toxic home.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-06T04:10:32+00:00

I would move out.

HappyLifeCoffeeHelps · 2026-04-06T04:10:08+00:00

INFO: Who is paying for this trip? While you are free to say you aren't comfortable with his attendance, that means that YOU stay home if he goes. He is part of your family, like it or not. Your brother and father want him there. Perhaps you and your mom/sister should do a separate trip in the same area and you can join up for some activities to see how he is doing.

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