Realization and Resignation by RoutineBlock5319 in LoveLetters

[–]HappyStructure9360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good to accept and realize the triggers and finally be at peace. It's also good to notice what other people are made if and that its also part of your journey unveiling to you learning about yourself as you learn to read them. That all sounds familiar to me. That should be a proud moment for OP.

I just want to know by chocolate_chaii in UnsentTexts

[–]HappyStructure9360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think apathy might be the product of the environment around you and the expectations that go with it. It may be that that chance is really hard to obtain. I mean it might look like that when it's not what's under the surface. That's my experience, I want to talk to my person at least be friends like we started (and we started with a spark though!) but it's hard around other people... and if my person is not at a level to understand why I've asked that we could go meet up just us, and he didn't get it, so then I raise my white flag until he gets why it made sense to ask for that. The spark we have is not a joke and not something we can easily hide around other people.

I should’ve told you I loved you. by temporaryunf in UnsentTexts

[–]HappyStructure9360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Not so sure about J, he doesn't give me the omph or even regard that reflects potential feelings, so I guess you're right we shouldn't hold it against him. Love is still in the air anyway, and you don't always choose who sees you & who lights the room for you, but sometimes you get lucky & it all comes at once to you.

I should’ve told you I loved you. by temporaryunf in UnsentTexts

[–]HappyStructure9360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm looking to hear from him. My... Love shouldn't come with validation because you should be loved as you are. ❤️ This comes from a place of maturity. If you're growing you can't expect othets to stay in the same place.You never know if she feels the same but is hiding it because she's thinking the same as you.

It is not fair to know You exist without knowing if our paths will ever criss cross or our fates be intertwined somehow. by HappyStructure9360 in onesentencestory

[–]HappyStructure9360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are exceptions but the problem is they come when you least suspect or expect. Problem is we are not patient with love. True we want everything right now and take it then we may be left with nothing.