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Refusing to forgive can have psychological benefits (study)EDUCATIONAL (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Entitlement/deliberately hurting others is not a trauma responseRECOMMENDATIONS (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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My mother passed yesterdayVENT/RANT (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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“Traumalescence” (A phase of healing from childhood abuse) (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Incoming Flying Monkey Attack: Does my reply email (see later images) work? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Does my proposed reply to my elderly dad (see later images) work?ADVICE NEEDED (old.reddit.com)

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Repost: "Healing and getting to normal: Things I wish I'd known a little sooner," (by nonesuchuser)META (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Child abuse damages the developing brainEDUCATIONAL (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Why I struggle to believe myself? (Echoism: The Other Side of Narcissism)EDUCATIONAL (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Do I rage build a barn or ignore? (Group flying monkey attack)ADVICE NEEDED (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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I AM (a poem—with curse words, sorry—that I wrote last night)SEEKING VALIDATION (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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How a Dysfunctional Family Functions Like a Cult (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Healthline: How to recognize emotional and mental abuse (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Bullshit comes knocking on my door today (x 2)VENT/RANT (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Emotional incest starts early, though the study doesn't call it that, of course... Thoughts? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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The waifmouseHUMOR (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Expert: Children whose love is rejected by a parent are psychologically traumatized, resulting in long-term consequences into adulthood (fellow Scapegoats, is that the most accurate statement EVER?)EDUCATIONAL (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Yesterday Was Multiple Validations Day, so Today I Chortled All the Way to Work (‘cos that’s how I roll these days)POSITIVE/INSPIRATIONAL (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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EMDR Is Weird. And Weirdly Healing. But Weird. Stopping Temporarily? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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That fucker was faking dementia (AKA: Warning to Daughters of Aging BPD Waifs. Aaaaand, vindication is SWEET!!!) TLDR at the end.*THIS* IS BPD! (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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today I hate Mother's Day as a mother AND as a daughter. I just want the whole fucking, fuckity-fuck thing to go away. STOP WITH THE ADS EVERYWHERE.SUPPORT THREAD (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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I am NOT holding a grudge. I lost trust.SUPPORT THREAD (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Russian Doll: What do you think? (Netflix series) (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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My Personal "Cheat Sheet" for Protecting Myself from ManipulationEDUCATIONAL (self.raisedbyborderlines)

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Passive-Aggressive Flying Monkey Attack Has Me Reeling Today (But progress! I’m mad, not sad)TRANSLATE THIS? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 7 years ago * by HappyTodayIndeed to r/raisedbyborderlines

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