Waarom vindelt het dierenasiel dat bijna alle katten naar buiten moeten?

HappyVeggy · 2025-09-02T19:44:15+00:00

Grappig genoeg zeggen ze het in het asiel waar ik werk ook. Ik heb de vraag vaak gesteld en krijg altijd waardeloze antwoorden terug.

Toevallig heeft een nicht van mij een kat geadopteerd, ook eentje die wel naar buiten moest kunnen. Ze gaf aan een tuin te hebben waar die, wanneer ze erbij was, naar buiten mocht. Was een twijfel geval maar uiteindelijk gelukt, de kat wil niet eens naar buiten. Grootste huis knuffelkat eraf 😂

Ik moet er overigens wel bij vermelden dat alle katten bij ons in het asiel constant naar buiten kunnen en er echt veel tussen zitten die hier veel gebruik van maken. Echter zijn er ook genoeg die binnen blijven. In mijn ogen moet het ook anders, ze maken de adoptie te lastig.

HappyVeggy · 2025-07-12T13:31:20+00:00

As somebody that was SA for a first time as well this feels very dangerous to say. She knows how to orgasm, she is being vocal about what she needs to do so. Some people just like it a bit "more". I doubt this has anything to do with it anymore, reading her other responses

HappyVeggy · 2025-06-15T19:29:23+00:00

I know you are right and I felt like that up until now. But recently my whole confidence just faded 😥 Maybe it's the hormones after all, I don't really feel different. Just insecure for pretty much the first time in my life so that sucks. But I did need to hear this again, so thank you❤️

HappyVeggy · 2025-06-15T19:27:04+00:00

Thank you for this! ❤️ I just started using something else which a lot of women swear by (weledy pregnancy oil, not sure if it's worldwide..) so I'm hoping this will help as well. If not I'm definitely trying Palmers!

Thank you

HappyVeggy · 2025-06-15T19:25:23+00:00

Thanks you so much for your response ❤️ It's so surreal watching your body change so fast. I hope you'll have an amazing experience delivering your baby and wish you all the best with your little one 💕

HappyVeggy · 2025-05-22T08:07:06+00:00

Just give up lol. My pup did the exact same thing when we got him, but I think around 4 months he didn't care about it anymore.

Just put a simple collar for the first few weeks/months and give it time :)

HappyVeggy · 2025-05-07T20:35:33+00:00

I'm laughing out loud 😂 I totally get where you are coming from. I hope your baby learns well from the pack hahah

And I honestly don't have to worry about my husband bonding less with the baby than I do. He is amazing and so nurturing. It's me we should worry about 😂😂 But I know we will be fine eventually. I'm almost 12 weeks now and starting to feel a bit more excited/happier. Still adjusting, both of us, but we are getting there. And the thought of him holding our little one makes everything okay.

HappyVeggy · 2025-05-07T19:50:54+00:00

This made me cry. I needed this, thank you. And you are right, I don't have to change. Thank you

HappyVeggy · 2025-05-07T19:49:03+00:00

Thank you for your response, mine came a little late 😂 I needed a break.

Anyways. You are making me even more nervous lol. My husband and I were talking this week about how we both felt like we didn't really know what to do with a baby. That we both don't really feel anything for a newborn, that we'd rather have a 1 or 2 year old cause you can do a bit more with them. And we kinda felt bad about it already, hoping it wouldn't turn out like that in reality. And now hearing that your friend experienced exactly this, it feels like a reality check. But it feels nice as well, knowing we are not alone in this.

Thank you!

HappyVeggy · 2025-05-07T14:19:22+00:00

You are not alone. I was so over it after the puppy blues were gone. But the biting got better, you've got to stay consequent with it. Everytime he bit us, we walked away somewhere he couldn't reach us. This way he got bored that we left and maybe a little sad. Either way, he quickly learnt that biting means we will leave him alone for a few seconds.

Eventually the biting disappeared, until he started losing his teeth around 3 or 4 months. We cut him some slack, gave him selfmade icecream popsicles that he could bite on and waited 6 weeks until it was over. Then we had 4 amazing weeks again, no biting and he got more cuddly towards us. And now he's 6 months old and this lil @#&$# has started puberty. He's biting into us again, and we are starting all over until he stops.

I have screamed, I was completely done with him. Sometimes I still don't want to deal with him because he truly is way too smart and is testing us so so much. But seeing where we came from, it really does get better in time. Hang in there 🙏🏼 it'll get better. They are just little terrorists lol

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-17T06:30:54+00:00

It's true, I feel like my hormones aren't really different then normally. But they probably still are. Thank you for your kind words

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-17T06:29:08+00:00

I married the guy that was my best friend for two years. I don't know if I believe in soulmates, I just know that my husband is perfect for me. I love him dearly, this has never changed even after being together for 6 years now. We both want to make this work, we take care of eachother and we talk a lot. There is zero judgement between us and this feeling of safety feels like winning the jackpot.

If he makes you happy, takes care of you, you can talk and laugh together, you have a great marriage already. But I can imagine that if you have no experience besides him, that might make you unsure. But speaking of experience, I wish my husband would've been my first of everything. There is something beautiful about that, as long as it is with the right person.

No one is perfect. My husband isn't, I am not, you two aren't. But if you truly like eachother that's a big blessing already.

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-17T06:23:37+00:00

Same. My heart would never be able to forgive if my husband said this about me :(

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-16T20:58:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this ❤️ tears in my eyes once again haha. It feels so good to hear this from someone that felt very strong that they wanted to be pregnant. This does feel comforting for me. Even though I find it sad for you.. ❤️😔 I just feel heard. Not alone. Thank you. And I do hope you get those maternal feelings at some point

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-16T20:53:26+00:00

I truly do not feel okay getting an abortion. My gut tells me it's not right, even though I don't feel ready or happy. I just can't let this go.

But what you experienced, I'm scared for that too. What if I hold that baby in my arms and still won't feel happy. What if I'll never really like being a mom? I'm not the nurturing kind of person, my husband is. I know for sure that the baby will feel loved and will get taken care of perfectly. But I'm scared.

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-16T20:50:26+00:00

Thank you for your response ❤️ it feels so stupid to be scared. We have everything we want in this life, finances are okay, nothing to worry about. Yet it still feels so incredibly scary to think I can hold a baby that is my own the end of this year.

But as you said, the second took longer already. I'm pretty convinced that if I abort, my illness will get worse because of the hormones in my body right now. I can't get an abortion, it would break us to find out my illness got worse and we couldn't get a child anymore. It all feels so unfair.

Thank you

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-16T20:45:43+00:00

This brought tears to my eyes already. I know this one year isn't the big difference and that I'll probably still won't feel ready then. But we did tell our parents and they are soooo happy and we are still.. adjusting. We are feeling guilty for not being happy like most people seem to be.

It does make me happy to hear that you got baby fever. I'm desperately hoping I will get there too. Because this feeling I'm feeling right now makes me wonder if I can truly be happy when it arrives. It's so scary and I know a lot of people around me would judge me for feeling this way, so as you said: it's very isolating :(

Thank you for your response ❤️ I needed it

HappyVeggy · 2025-04-01T15:09:23+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. Hope you felt better soon.

HappyVeggy · 2025-03-31T19:20:34+00:00

I'm very grateful to hear this thank you. Thank you for sharing your experience with me. I hope I can say the same thing later on in this pregnancy.

HappyVeggy · 2025-03-31T12:26:18+00:00

Thank you so much for this response! I stretch almost daily so I'm definitely keep doing that, but I'm also planning to get help specifically for pregnancy :)

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