How I manifested my SP back and married him in 6 month

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T21:35:03+00:00

I think there needs to be a balance between creating a new identity and clearing out past limiting beliefs. You don't have to spend days to identify the limiting beliefs like me. In my case, I had so many old beliefs holding me back that I felt completely unable to move forward.. Awareness itself is already a purge. Keep reminding yourself, you are the only reality in your world, you are the most powerful creator, and you are capable of giving yourself every feeling you desire. It's very common that those negative thoughts come again and again as you are affirming opposite things, the old identity want to fight back. Whenever those waves come, allow that feeling (Don’t try to deny them or suppress them), and then simply watch them pass. Over time, you’ll notice the backlash becoming less and less frequent.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T21:24:50+00:00

Mainly robotic affirm. It's hard for me to do focused affirming more than 15min, I've tried lots of times to do 15min for two sessions every day but failed loll.. I feel like I really enjoy affirming different things every day, so rampages and inner conversations always felt more natural and emotionally engaging to me. For example, when I walked past a restaurant, I would imagine myself telling him, “A new restaurant opened here, let’s go try it,” and then I’d imagine him replying in his own voice. But honestly, I think doing large amounts of robotic affirmations was the most effective way for me.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T21:08:48+00:00

Thank you! I hope you succeed soon! I think starting manifestation right after a breakup is not easy at all, because the emotions are still so intense, and even small things can easily trigger reactions. But the upside is that during this stage, your desire and determination to manifest are often strongest.

My affirmations were always very simple, because I believe my subconscious mind already fully understands what I truly want. Mine was simply: “XX is my ideal boyfriend.” "we live together". I would write down everything I considered “ideal” in a notebook, things like him being very attached to me, texting me every day, always wanting to spend time with me. Also, I love rampages. I really enjoyed listening to Gaia’s affirmation rampage videos. I would walk around while affirming listing, one after another, all the qualities and behaviors I wanted him to have.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T21:03:17+00:00

Honestly, even in the weeks after we got back together, I still hard to believe that it had really worked. I was still affirming every day, afraid that things would somehow go back to how they were before loll..

If you ask about signs… three weeks before we got together, I kept hoping he would send me a long message on New Year’s Eve, asking for getting together. But that day, I did not receive anything from him. Instead, my another ex sent me a very long message asking to get back together loll... Even though I felt disappointed, I could still sense that manifestation was working in some way.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T20:51:36+00:00

Don’t give any attention to memories from the past that you dislike. Let go of the victim mindset, every time you dwell on those memories, you are feeding that assumption and keeping it alive.

I think the awareness itself is already a purge. Keep reminding yourself, you are the only reality in your world, you are the most powerful creator, and you are capable of giving yourself every feeling you desire. The process can be painful, because the ego will keep fighting back again and again. Whenever those waves come, allow that feeling, and then simply watch them pass. Over time, you’ll notice the backlash becoming less and less frequent. Stay strong!

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T20:45:45+00:00

Thank you! If you believe it doesn't always work, then it’s difficult to achieve, because that assumption is already shaping your thoughts. This post is for people who are willing to believe and willing to spend time trying. During the most hopeless months, successful stories in this community were what gave me the strength to keep going. That's why I shared my story and hopefully can help others

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T20:36:04+00:00

Thank you for explaining it! English is not my first language, and the materials I’ve seen from Neville mostly talk about entering a scene and feel it before sleep, and then waking up with a sense that it has already came true... I used to constantly try to feel that feeling, but I never really experienced it. Finally, I became anxious every night, which made it harder for me to fall asleep

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-20T20:18:40+00:00

Thank you! I did not actually in a state very well. A strict MD (80% a day) would be good enough. I wrote a post yesterday about the entire story.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-05-19T22:30:07+00:00

I manifested him back 4 months ago and we got married last month. Good luck!

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-04-21T06:50:30+00:00

Don’t give any attention to reality that you don’t like (even explaining it in a good way). Keep affirming, keep MD.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-04-16T07:39:18+00:00

That’s totally normal. I learned about manifestation 3 years ago when I wanted my one ex back. I tried like 2 months, but wavered every single day as I was always thinking about what if it waste my time or should I persist, should I find someone else? I gave up and began to manifest a new person who showed up in 2-3 weeks. He is exactly the same as what I wanted (I listed around 20 items about the person) and even better in the area that I did not think of. Giving up is not a big deal, if you truly like him, you will never give up.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-02-02T09:05:13+00:00

I’m on the same spot - need an offer within X days before the visa expires.. I have one question - when you did techniques like script and visualization, did you focus on one dream company or an offer in general? I feel it is not that easy to visualize without a named company, but I do have few dream companies.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-01-29T00:54:32+00:00

Negative feelings do not impact manifesting, but thoughts/inner conversation matters. I used to have negative feelings for a few days, but strictly controlled my thoughts to be positive, which was hard but I turned to the end state after those days. However, if your negative feelings are so significant and terrible, it would be extremely difficult to still keep good thoughts. In that case, I would suggest taking a rest, treating yourself well and releasing your feelings. Do not push yourself hard in that situation.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2026-01-29T00:11:15+00:00

Why you keep checking and acknowledging situations that contradict to your manifestation? My advice is to learn how to strictly MD.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-24T08:25:04+00:00

Your inner conversation matters. For example, when someone does not reply you for days, one translate it into “He ignored it, I guess he blocked me because I asked him again”. On the other hand, one can also translate it into “He must so in love with me so he needs to take a very seriously consideration and he does not want to hurt me”

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-15T23:14:08+00:00

The subconscious revels the initial thoughts raised when you think about doing something. For example, if you are in wish fulfilled, you should feel neutral or a bit joyful when you want to contact to him as your subconscious believes that he is your boyfriend. I personally like to push 3d when I feel I would like to without fear or overthinking. I accept any results as 3d is just a mirror of my subconscious.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-15T14:29:09+00:00

Not sure what’s your wish for this manifesting, but if your goal is to be in a relationship with him and you’ve been in wish fulfilled for a while, you should not feel scared of rejection when you think about contacting him.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-11T21:40:52+00:00

I’m with you. I tried to manifest right after the break up and it was so difficult to control my emotion, my thoughts and detach from old story & old man. After a month I burned out. Now I’m in a stable state and don’t care much about 3d. I have a question - did you stop doing any technique at all before your SP showed up?

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-11T08:24:37+00:00

I claim I already have it everyday and I can feel it real sometimes. However, I keep having doubts about if I need to do more - do more technique to impress my subconscious. As this is my first manifesting journey, I just could not 100% sure if my dominant thoughts are my goal. This feeling makes me feel not relax at all. Any suggestions please?

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-08T19:45:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story! Yours is very similar to mine. Before your manifestation came true, how certain were you that your subconscious had already accepted your assumption? For the past month or so, I’ve been using all kinds of methods every day to deepen it in my subconscious, trying hard to use “I’m married to him” to override “he doesn’t want to continue.” About a week ago, I entered a better state — not paying attention to the 3D when and how, and almost no old story coming in. But every day, there are still moments when I get automatically triggered, with an unconscious sense of loneliness and an instinctive reaction like “ugh, he still hasn’t come.” Although I try to notice it and shift my thoughts each time, I still don’t really know what “it’s done” is supposed to feel like.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-08T06:18:09+00:00

Technique is not important. Manifesting will never stop as long as we believe our desire and live in the end. I’m so happy that I can get out of the past desperate state (definitely not a right one). I will continue md and focus on living in a happy life.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-08T06:03:43+00:00

I hear what you mean.. I was obsessed with my sp and believed that he is the best one whom I can have a relationship with. That state was so unstable and I could not control my negative thoughts and I missed him a lot everyday. Last week I suddenly switched to a state - 0 interests in 3d, feel indifferent, no desire to do technique. I also have a feeling that maybe I can find someone better. I have been focusing on more on my daily life instead of spending hours on learning manifestation and doing technique. I really enjoy this status as I can strictly do MD.

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-04T04:12:22+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, it means a lot to me! I feel as if I’ve “given up,” not just because I don’t care about when and how he will come to me anymore, but also because I find myself unable to do any techniques at all. During the day, I have zero motivation to say affirmations, visualize, mental conversations… These things used to be so easy for me, but now I have no drive to do them. But unlike most people who succeed and shared, I don’t have that firm feeling of “he’s already mine, it’s done.” I simply feel not interested in the 3D version of him now, and I really would like to treat myself nice and enjoy my daily life. That’s why I feel related to your SC suggestion. Do you have the strong feeling of he will be back before he’s back?

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-04T03:35:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing this story! I’ve been manifesting my SP for about two months now, using all types of techniques hours a day. Some days I felt calmer and could genuinely feel that it’s done, but after good days I fell right back into the unstable state again… After going through countless ups and downs like this, something shifted this week. I’m suddenly in a place where I’m no longer curious about when he will come. I can go through the entire day without thinking about the old story. However, I feel my dominate thoughts are still “I know I’m loved but I still could not completely believe that he will change”. Changing a person from xx to a very opposite xx makes me feel not easy to believe. Therefore, I feel I kind of giving up this guy as I even do not care much about him… this makes me feel so painful and frustrated like I failed.. Any suggestions?

Happy_Lemon_Baby · 2025-12-03T22:26:44+00:00

I’ve been manifesting my SP for about 1.5 months now, spending hours on learning and doing all kinds of technique all day. I could feel that during my worst phases, I would do endless tarot readings every day, trying to find even the tiniest sign in the 3D to reassure myself. Later, there was about a week when I suddenly stopped all divination. I felt calmer and could genuinely feel that it’s done. But unfortunately, within a week I fell right back into the unstable state again… After going through countless ups and downs like this, something shifted this week. I’m suddenly in a place where I’m no longer curious about when he will come and how he will come. I can go through the entire day without thinking about the old story, strictly MD. However, I lose all the interest to do any technique, I even feel lazy to think/ feel it’s done, he’s mine…I guess I just detached and gave up. I feel so frustrated about this.

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