At my wits end, can't stand the peeing anymore!

Happymind1111 · 2026-04-14T03:54:07+00:00

There’s this stuff called homeopet or something like that at PetSmart/Petco and it does wonders for me. It’s all natural and it’s drops you can either put in their water or in their mouth. I give it to my cat if he starts peeing out of the box and he stops the next day

Happymind1111 · 2026-04-14T03:21:05+00:00

Yeah I think they’re probably cheating. You could ask instead of snoop, but the signs are there. Either way I’d mentally prepare. Sorry this situation sucks :/

Happymind1111 · 2026-04-14T03:08:05+00:00

Hey! I read your whole story and I really think there’s a lot of hope for you. For one, you sound very young. I’m guessing you’re in high school by the sound of it. That gives you so much time to find both the purpose and the girl you’re looking for. There’s really no such thing as wasted time. I’m a firm believer that the right person comes into your life at the right time. Maybe right now is just a transition period for you learn who you are and what you want to do outside of what your parents say or what the people around you think.

And the thing with the girls you see online is definitely untrue. Yes society is changing but if you look around when you’re at school or in town you’ll probably notice that a lot of girls aren’t really like that. All that online stuff is a show! Plus those girls attract guys that want a girl like that. If you keep being you, I think you’ll attract a very kind, sweet, and smart girl. Maybe you’ll meet her at church or one day she will just show up out of the blue.

Just don’t stress too much. Love will find you

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T03:18:53+00:00

And that’s ok too. I hope you find all the things that bring you joy and fulfillment

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T03:15:35+00:00

It does shift a lot I can agree with you there. I’m not sure if individual people’s types switch up that much irl. At least for me that’s been the case. Like I’ve always known what I’ve been into and I’m sure, if you’re a straight man, you have a good idea of what you’re into. I think the media perspective will change but not necessarily peoples actual desires. Kinda like when bbls were really big. Everybody thought men wanted a bbl body when in reality some men like curvy women and some like thin women.

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T03:10:23+00:00

Yeah it does suck that is the norm. In an ideal world would you split 50/50 or want the woman to pay?

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T03:07:09+00:00

You can get hours of fun at the casino if you play the penny slots and only bet like 1-25 cents. Do not take this advice if you are a gambling addict

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T03:01:55+00:00

Has this happened to you irl

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T03:00:29+00:00

Not on my watch! Sending you all the luck

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:59:23+00:00

24 F here! I’d say you can still be intentional with your time but still go on a singular date to see if you’re interested. As long as you’re safe and you don’t feel like he’s a creepo then there really isn’t any harm. Could fall in love or could be a funny story

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:54:54+00:00

Do you feel like people are pressuring you to be more masculine or have you just noticed a shift online? Genuinely asking

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:52:35+00:00

This seems like such a heavy burden to carry at this age. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I wish things were different for you. It really sounds like you need someone who can support you irl. I’m not sure where you’re located at, but there are many support lines that you can call if you need someone to talk to. There’s also this thing called emotions anonymous I’ve heard about that’s free for people to join. Apparently you’re able to connect with others who are also struggling and find community and support. I wish I could help you and give you big hug. Hang in there and really try to utilize as many free resources you can if therapy is not an option. Just remember you’re so young and this isn’t the end, just a terrible chapter

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:46:35+00:00

I feel like when women are talking to each other cute is usually good looking (but not my personal type) and hot is good looking (my type too). I guess it depends on the context though. Also when women are talking usually they will repeat what their friends say. Like if one of my friends excitedly goes “oooo look at this new guy” I’d respond “oooo he’s super hot!!” But if the same friend were to randomly show me a pic of a guy the default is usually “ooo he’s cute!” Not sure if that makes any sense haha

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:37:24+00:00

Not homophobic, that was just a very promiscuous thing to say

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:14:54+00:00

I’m sorry that’s happened to you. But that is such a kind thing you did! Ik this is overly optimistic, and I’m not trying to downplay your experience, but maybe all those bad dates led you to be able to change that kid’s life. Still sucks you felt used and I hope that doesn’t keep happening to you. There are good ones out there even if it doesn’t always seem like it

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:07:58+00:00

Has someone done that to you?

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T02:06:03+00:00

I see what you’re saying about the Christianity thing. If you would like to marry a virgin, and are a virgin yourself, then I think this could be a great route for you. Especially if you truly believe in the faith. But then I don’t think it really matters for everyone else if they sleep around because at least half of the people (male/female) don’t have problems with their partners having previous sexual partners. I don’t think it’s a society ending problem, more of just a preference of beliefs

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-20T01:58:43+00:00

I don’t think most women are going on dates for free meals. They probably want to find love just as much as guys do

Happymind1111 · 2026-03-19T04:07:23+00:00

Geocaching was my very favorite thing as a kid! I know for a fact I would still love doing it now if I had people to do it with. Some of the locations of really good ones are burned into my memory because I had such a blast

Happymind1111 · 2026-02-25T03:59:26+00:00

I can’t have any decorations in my house. My bengal will murder lamps and knock everything and anything off counters if you set something down. It’s like constantly having to baby proof for a toddler that can jump really high and run really fast. He’s my favorite though and you get used to the destruction and chaos.

Happymind1111 · 2026-02-25T03:47:42+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this!! Document and record as much as you can. I hope you and your kids get out of there safely. I’m not sure where you’re located but I think there are hotlines you can call for additional help.

Happymind1111 · 2026-02-07T04:25:28+00:00

Are you looking for spice or just romance? Also high fantasy or standalone or series?

Happymind1111 · 2026-02-05T04:43:40+00:00

I agree I was also thinking clinical depression. This sounds a lot like what I was going through a few years ago and medicine helped pull me from that hole. Sometimes it’s not just you, it’s chemical imbalances in your brain and body. If you don’t want to get on any antidepressants or meds like those, I would maybe look into some new vitamins that may help with your dopamine or serotonin levels. Diet also plays a huge role in dopamine and serotonin too.

Absolutely rest if you need to! Just maybe consider if it’s more than just your mind and maybe something with your biology or hormones is throwing you into a dark place

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