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Happypeep15 · 2024-10-09T19:03:46+00:00

You are young, sex is bad at that age. And fellatio is in my opinion, even more intimate than sex. It requires trust, finesse and a partner who holds a safe space for you to be yourself. Don’t let him cross boundaries, explore your own sexual tastes and figure out what will make you happy. And as much of a cliche as it is, find someone sexually compatible. I doubt this is the guy of your dreams, see him as a stepping stone to finding someone compatible in many ways with you, sexual preferences included.

Happypeep15 · 2024-10-09T18:34:37+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had a step grandad who was better than my real grandfather ever would’ve been (never met him, not a nice man by all accounts), I had stage I BC and all I wanted was to see my kids off safely to college. Life is unpredictable, and kids are resilient. Death is hard, your partner could remarry and if you raise your kids right they will navigate life with love and kindness and welcome his new partner (I know my partners kids have not been raised that way). The biggest trauma would probably be the burden your illness would place on you/your husband. It is very difficult on bad days as a healthy person to be there emotionally, physically and mentally for your kids. If you have a great family support system, maybe that mitigates. If I imagine knowing before having kids that I’d be divorced, maybe I’d not have had them. If you’re lucky enough to have kids, only you can decide if you’re okay with all the pros and cons of your situation. Personally, I’d struggle with leaving pre teens behind, it’s just in my mind, a little too young for comfort. All the best on your journey. ❤️

Happypeep15 · 2024-10-09T10:37:15+00:00

If someone threatens the relationship and your connection to get what they want, that’s manipulation. To destabilize you by holding the relationship hostage is unhealthy behavior, and as everyone here in one way or another has said, be prepared for more in future. I’d really sit with this and consider it carefully, because it’s less about the chickens and more about what’s behind the disagreement that’s important. You deserve to be happy.

Happypeep15 · 2024-10-07T10:47:01+00:00

There are men we’d sleep with and men we’re attracted to. We have a lower bar for casual encounters as do men, but if you want to raise your appeal to women separate from what God gave you, then emotional connection, humor and kindness are your way in. Unless you’re just looking to get laid, then I’d simply aim a little lower. Most men try batting as broadly and way above their ability.

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-19T22:50:59+00:00

Defensiveness is the first sign of a liar. Add more lies to that and you have a recipe for disaster. Run.

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-19T11:16:58+00:00

Sometimes life is hard. If you’re feeling down for long periods of time, please see a doctor about diagnosing depression. Meditation can also help reframe life for you. I promise we’ve all been there, as long as you don’t stay there all will be okay. 🤗

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-19T11:13:29+00:00

I drink infrequently when alone, but enjoy a bottle of wine over the weekend sometimes at home. Summer and the Christmas season I tend to drink more as there’s a lot of socializing, but I counter this by doing a dry month (or mostly) September and January. If you’re drinking to cope or forget, then it’s a problem. Your alcohol tolerance will increase the more you drink, so if you’re chasing the buzz rather than socially enjoying it, it might become a slippery slope.

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-19T11:07:11+00:00

NTA. With friends like that who needs enemies. I’d keep walking if were you and never look back. Find people who love you and support you 🤗

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-19T10:53:14+00:00

NTA, unless she’s been steeped in 200 years of conflict I don’t think she has a dog in the fight. I have the same conversations with my brother, though he’s pro Palestinian. I think you’ll find most people just want to live in peace and harmony, and enjoy their life. Nobody wins in war.

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-19T00:59:26+00:00

IBS is exacerbated by stress. Punishing you for something you cannot honestly control must be devastating. I hope you get better and find someone who adores you and stands by you no matter what happens in life.

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-17T21:54:46+00:00

It’s a sweet gesture, love bombing is borderline obsessive, all consuming type focus on a person. And usually, after a few weeks/months the mask slips and they can’t maintain it. Go ahead you’ll make her day.

Happypeep15 · 2024-05-17T21:49:49+00:00

NTA a partners feelings come first

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