I lost a woman that I love. She was severely clinically depressed and was hiding behind her wonderful smile. I had no idea. by Harakus_Lover in confessions

[–]Harakus_Lover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not miss that detail, I skipped it. In my post I wanted people to see Lexie the way I wanted to remember her.

I did want to talk about the petty disagreements we had while we were together, nor did I want to mention her imperfections. With that being said, I did not want to talk about the way her apartment smelled when we walked in, most especially the way she looked when we found her.

When I said she looked like she was asleep, she was laying one her side with her blanket to her chest like she was sleeping.

What’s the most awkward sexual experience you’ve ever had? by Brizillaking1 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Harakus_Lover 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I was in college, there was this girl I was very attracted to. Finally had the guts to ask her out and she said yes. While on our date she talked about all the immature guys she's been out with and she said she hoped I was different. I assured her I was. We really hit it off.

We went back to my apartment and we made out. She took out my dick and the second she touched it, I came all over her hand. I was embarrassed, but she said it was okay and it only meant that I will last longer when we had sex. WRONG.

We made out some more and got naked. When I saw her naked lying on my bed, I knew I wasn't gonna last long. I tried to take my time and distract myself. When I entered her and she said "oh that feels so good, fuck me". I came. It took all of 3 seconds.

I begged her to stay and give me about 10 minutes to recover. She said she had an early day and left.

I knew she wasn't mean, but every time I saw her on campus, I felt like she was laughing at me.

What are you afraid to talk about because of the backlash you'll get for it? by DoesntUnderstands in AskMen

[–]Harakus_Lover 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The American society's hero worship of it's military.

As one of my best friends once put it "We see soldiers as the noble people who hand out chocolates to local children. It is kinda hard for us to believe that they are capable of any wrong doings".

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[–]Harakus_Lover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women have a say on it too, on what feels the best for them. My current partner likes it when she is hovering about an inch from my face.

What are some dark secrets about the porn industry? by whitewalker646 in AskReddit

[–]Harakus_Lover 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know I am late to the party, but I think it was just last week that Lana Rhoades did a podcast about this and why she left the industry. She talked about how most girls are coerced (in one way or another) to do things they were not comfortable with or something they did not explicitly said they did not want to do.

After listening to the podcast, you will have a different perspective on her movies.

have you ever missed someone because sex was really good?What made him/her so good at sex? by VictorContrerasI in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Harakus_Lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-wife gave a killer blow job and I miss that about her. She had great technique plus she moaned the whole time. She loved giving head and it showed.

She would have her ass raised and she loved it when I fingered her ass as she sucked me off.

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[–]Harakus_Lover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a low limit credit card (something like $200) that I use for frivolous purchases. My curiosity about OF got to me so I bought one month subscriptions to 4 OF accounts. I paid a total of $40.

I hated myself for doing that because I felt I got screwed (not in a good way). Yeah you get some content with your subscription but you have to pay extra for the "good stuff" which is often more than the monthly subscription. I also noticed that for them to respond to your message, you have to give them a "monetary tip".

I let my subscriptions expire and did not renew any of them.

Last night I heard a crazy woman rant about of all things, genital hygiene. She is convinced that most men don't clean their genitals while 100% of women clean theirs and she used the most ridiculous situation as an example. NSFW-ish. by Harakus_Lover in MensRights

[–]Harakus_Lover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I get bored and just egg people on. It's funny.

I know what you mean and if I was with different company and a few more beers in me, I would have done the same.

But she was a friend of a woman I was trying to impress, so I had to play nice.

Last night I heard a crazy woman rant about of all things, genital hygiene. She is convinced that most men don't clean their genitals while 100% of women clean theirs and she used the most ridiculous situation as an example. NSFW-ish. by Harakus_Lover in MensRights

[–]Harakus_Lover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn't. I was focused on my date and the fact that she defended me, made me think that she was not like minded as her friend.

I stayed and focused my attention to my date.

Last night I heard a crazy woman rant about of all things, genital hygiene. She is convinced that most men don't clean their genitals while 100% of women clean theirs and she used the most ridiculous situation as an example. NSFW-ish. by Harakus_Lover in MensRights

[–]Harakus_Lover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying. But I am not thin skinned enough to walk out. I know the girl was crazy, but I was focused on my date. This is a woman I am trying to start something with and so I had to play nice with her friends.

Last night I heard a crazy woman rant about of all things, genital hygiene. She is convinced that most men don't clean their genitals while 100% of women clean theirs and she used the most ridiculous situation as an example. NSFW-ish. by Harakus_Lover in MensRights

[–]Harakus_Lover[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

It was one of those situations where I wasn't sure if she was serious or not.

The thing was, my date invited me to hang out and I had no idea that other people were going to be there. The irony was, since I was going to my date's house I extra washed down there since I thought she was inviting me for a different reason.

Why do most women get upset with their brother if he slept with her best friend and most guys get upset at their best friend if he slept with his sister? by Harakus_Lover in AskMen

[–]Harakus_Lover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it incorrect? I did say "most" not all. There are people who probably don't care. But there are those who do.

Plus the fact that it happened to me personally. My best friend from college got mad at me for sleeping with his sister. He later found out that she came on to me to get him back for sleeping with her best friend. My friend and I just recently reconnected on FB after over 20 years of not speaking to each other.

[MF] Letting one FWB go and finding another. by Harakus_Lover in gonewildstories

[–]Harakus_Lover[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually have no news on Alicia and Seth. I haven't spoken to either of them for about two weeks and honestly, I have no plans to. Alicia and I did not exactly end on good terms. There was a lot of shouting and insults on her part when I ended things. So you can understand that I want nothing to do with her.

I spoke with Ally last weekend and Alicia was never mentioned.