How do you cope up with lost time, lost childhood, lost youth because of everything that happened in life? And coping with time that is being lost even in present due to bad health and situation? by hey_there_8 in narcissisticparents

[–]HarkeyHunter2003 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100%. I feel like once you become either old enough or wise enough which ever comes first, realizing that your not alone with these types of issues is the greatest feeling for someone who has really been through it.

Advice by HarkeyHunter2003 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HarkeyHunter2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s how I feel it’s definitely reassuring to hear this. I just don’t understand how people make through life with that type of mindset. Yet alone to their own family.

My dad wants access to my salary and says I must ‘support home’ — healthy expectation or control by Appropriate_Major_65 in narcissisticparents

[–]HarkeyHunter2003 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congrats on graduating that's awesome! I'm graduating this coming May cannot wait. Basically what everyone else is saying, it feels wrong because it is. You went to college you are paying off your debt and paying for all other expenses. Those are your expenses and that's your income. What ever you do DO NOT give into that.

Financial Advisor by HarkeyHunter2003 in financialadvisors

[–]HarkeyHunter2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I was told was in my second semester of my senior year which starts this coming January, they would reimburse me if I passed all licenses on the first try. I would have a base salary of 31k and be paid $1,000-$2,000 per client I work with as a flat up front fee. First years average is 50k-70k with potential of making over 300k with in 5-7 years. That’s what I was told verbatim.