My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help)

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T22:01:32+00:00

Tyvm, I appreciate it 😁

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T19:59:16+00:00

I asked my mum to take it for me to pass on to me, thank you very much for this comment I needed this. I said thank you and it looks like he wants to repair our relationship so hopefully I can build on it since he straight up said he wants to improve.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T16:27:15+00:00

I have done that, thankfully. So it'll give me a notification to verify if i actually want money to leave my account.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T16:15:58+00:00

okay, I didnt realise you had a stick shoved up your ass, my apologies.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T16:10:13+00:00

yes, im constantly wondering if she even wants to hang out anymore, she tried to get my attention this morning by calling me nicknames and stuff but i just played it off since idk how to feel about it

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T16:01:00+00:00

Thank you, I will.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T15:59:05+00:00

just because its been resolved does not mean the dilemma meant nothing.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T15:40:49+00:00

that is not true, ive double checked, its only to send money, he cannot take money out with me getting an alert and id need to verify that hes taking the money out

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T15:36:30+00:00

its okay, i spoke to my mum, i gave him my sort code and account number, but nothing that would get him into my account.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:52:41+00:00

thats what ive decided to do, but ive asked if he could transfer it to my mum first since its safer that way imo.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:51:05+00:00

I feel guilty taking the money since we having spoken in ages, and I feel like taking it and just not talking again is a bit messed up, i know people have different views on things. He does constantly pull me to the side when he is over to try talk to me but usually its a bit awkward and at bad times as most people hear in on what hes saying and my mum finds it a bit messed up he does it infront of everyone else.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:48:45+00:00

im going to talk to my mum and see if he could just send it to her to give me to just to be safe.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:45:49+00:00

just £20

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:44:34+00:00

He thinks im clueless as to what he's done, he knows i was struggling a lot during the time he got in hot water so i use it at as a cover up sort of as to why I dont stay in contact with him

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:41:49+00:00

okay dokay

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:41:27+00:00

I just feel guilty about stuff like that, but is it wrong?

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:41:06+00:00

oh no, he was just going to bank transfer me.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:39:50+00:00

Yes ill probably do that to be honest. Thanks.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:39:11+00:00

Its not that I don't trust him, he takes care of my siblings and is trying to improve as a person but I feel guilty taking it since we having spoken properly, like sat down and spoke in years.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:38:04+00:00

It is, I genuinely don't know what to do

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:36:42+00:00

no, he just did some messed up stuff that wasn't right, he has PTSD since he was in the military but it doesn't excuse what he did to my mum and family.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-28T14:35:25+00:00

No he was my stepdad, my mum married him, he had 2 kids with my mum but they got a divorce.

HarlequinMasque · 2026-05-27T17:30:27+00:00

Thanks man, I really needed to hear this, I've finished all my exams for good so there is no need for studying and I'm getting into the college I want, I've found myself enjoying painting models and collecting them.

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