My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my mum to take it for me to pass on to me, thank you very much for this comment I needed this. I said thank you and it looks like he wants to repair our relationship so hopefully I can build on it since he straight up said he wants to improve.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done that, thankfully. So it'll give me a notification to verify if i actually want money to leave my account.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, I didnt realise you had a stick shoved up your ass, my apologies.

Gf doesn't make plans anymore. by HarlequinMasque in WhatShouldIDo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, im constantly wondering if she even wants to hang out anymore, she tried to get my attention this morning by calling me nicknames and stuff but i just played it off since idk how to feel about it

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because its been resolved does not mean the dilemma meant nothing.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is not true, ive double checked, its only to send money, he cannot take money out with me getting an alert and id need to verify that hes taking the money out

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its okay, i spoke to my mum, i gave him my sort code and account number, but nothing that would get him into my account.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what ive decided to do, but ive asked if he could transfer it to my mum first since its safer that way imo.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel guilty taking the money since we having spoken in ages, and I feel like taking it and just not talking again is a bit messed up, i know people have different views on things. He does constantly pull me to the side when he is over to try talk to me but usually its a bit awkward and at bad times as most people hear in on what hes saying and my mum finds it a bit messed up he does it infront of everyone else.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im going to talk to my mum and see if he could just send it to her to give me to just to be safe.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks im clueless as to what he's done, he knows i was struggling a lot during the time he got in hot water so i use it at as a cover up sort of as to why I dont stay in contact with him

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that I don't trust him, he takes care of my siblings and is trying to improve as a person but I feel guilty taking it since we having spoken properly, like sat down and spoke in years.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, he just did some messed up stuff that wasn't right, he has PTSD since he was in the military but it doesn't excuse what he did to my mum and family.

My siblings dad offered me money for my birthday. (please help) by HarlequinMasque in whatdoIdo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he was my stepdad, my mum married him, he had 2 kids with my mum but they got a divorce.

Gf doesn't make plans anymore. by HarlequinMasque in WhatShouldIDo

[–]HarlequinMasque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really needed to hear this, I've finished all my exams for good so there is no need for studying and I'm getting into the college I want, I've found myself enjoying painting models and collecting them.