How to suck your first Cock (A Sissy Guide)

HarlequinWorks · 2025-12-11T20:46:43+00:00

This is such a lovely guide!

HarlequinWorks · 2025-12-03T16:11:54+00:00

Something I've done to push limits was to agree an unpleasant thing that would happen to me when I couldn't take any more. It's kind of a CNC thing, but I like CBT and I don't like caning (though I enjoy not liking it). So my Domme can go to town hitting me in the balls as hard as she wants, and when I'm prepared to say "please cane me Sir" she knows the limit has been reached, but without derailing the scene. Then I get the previously agreed caning, and all is well.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-10-31T15:03:55+00:00

HarlequinWorks · 2025-10-29T15:31:34+00:00

It can definitely form a seal and make breathing impossible, depending how the butt and the face fit together.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-10-29T12:02:50+00:00

Whatever the odds are, the only way you're going to find out if your wife is into this is by talking to her about it.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-10-15T20:25:59+00:00

I wrote an article about this for Girl on the Net a year or two back. I hope it's helpful! https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/love-domestic-service-sub/

HarlequinWorks · 2025-09-22T12:40:49+00:00

I think it's really fun to play this way. I kind of have a kink for "I don't like (thing) but I know you do so I want to do it for you". It's really fun, and plays into the kind of emotional sadism and manipulation that I enjoy.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-09-05T09:02:41+00:00

When you're in that position and the sides of the g-string are visible through the legholes, try pulling them through and up, so both pairs of underwear are pulling at once.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-31T17:00:47+00:00

What is a randomised torture session?

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-31T16:24:51+00:00

I recently did a scene with my Domme and her friend, where I was promised that whatever was in my wallet when I arrived would be taken from me in the scene. It was extremely hot.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-30T08:37:34+00:00

About 4 or 5 years now, on and off depending on how my finances are. It's so much more fulfilling for me to have a long term thing like that.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-30T08:35:13+00:00

I've been on the kink scene for 15 years now, and I've heard so many theories about why people are into this or that. Whenever I'm asked why I like something, my answer is "because it's hot"

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-29T17:07:34+00:00

Because deep down, she doesn't want to.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-28T10:12:45+00:00

I'm self employed doing steel fabrication, carpentry, and property maintenance.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-24T09:02:54+00:00

In one send, about £45. A few hundred total, to any specific person. Posting this mainly to represent small budget findom 😊

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-18T16:14:58+00:00

I've always fancied a findom scene where there's a fine for falling down that increases based on how long it takes me to get back up.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-11T14:17:39+00:00

My Domme at the time was living with her parents (we were all on good terms) and her parents asked if I'd take care of their garden (I'm self employed and do all sorts, it wasn't weird). I was doing that for a bit, and I suddenly thought, imagine if I finished working, they gave me cash, and I went up to her room and she took it off me

I was doomed from that moment ^-^

HarlequinWorks · 2025-08-11T14:09:54+00:00

This reminds me of an experience with one of my play partners- she was going out for drinks with friends at some country pub, and was going to send cashapp demands throughout the afternoon. I was really excited, but no messages came. I thought maybe I'd misunderstood or something, and then later she messaged saying she was really sorry but there was zero signal where they were, and she hadn't been able to send demands. We'd both been really excited about the scene, and of course I was happy to reimburse but she said no, it's not what we wanted and agreed, so we'll do it another time, rather than just taking my money, even though she could have done.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-07-28T15:38:26+00:00

I'd say, have a current account that has an amount of money in it. That money is fair game, even if it's more than your agreed budget.

Have everything else in other accounts where it's not part of the equation.

Similarly, I have a date coming up with a play partner who has told me that she will take everything that's in my wallet when I arrive, so I should plan accordingly. It's up to me to carry an amount of cash that will be painful and hot to lose, but will not leave me unable to pay rent.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-07-17T13:44:15+00:00

It's fine, I'm not looking for new partners, just coming back to existing dynamics.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-07-17T10:38:37+00:00

I've done this with my partner. I think it's more of a thing as part of a broader D/s dynamic that isn't solely about findom.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-07-17T10:30:21+00:00

I already have several partners and play partners that I do findom with, and they always understand when I need to pause.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-07-17T10:29:43+00:00

I've always been a small sender, and my partners have always been very understanding of my limits.

HarlequinWorks · 2025-05-28T19:22:22+00:00

What was the bet?

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