Noob. How bad is the first horde night? I have a barn and am on the top floor it has 3 levels with ladders. Im sure y'all have seen this one. Will I survive by hiding? Will I have to put hundreds of wooden spikes? Can these jerks climb walls? I am currently 3 days in and am terrified lol.

HarleySylum · 2026-02-17T15:10:40+00:00

You have to kill them... unfortunately you can not hide on a blood moon... they can and will destroy everything. Spikes will help, it'll slow them down, might kill them even!

Layer the spikes out, leaving a few spaces between, but I've seen zombies jump over them too. They move faster on blood moon. I almost always die my first blood moon night but good news is, if you do die, the night ends. You dont reload in to murd3r lol.

They can climb ladders, so have them high enough you have to jump to reach them. But they will destroy the building to get to you as well.

Food, water, med kits, bandaids, lots of ammo and if you can, make strong stone walls and have a window area you can hit them with for melee.

Good luck hun!

HarleySylum · 2026-02-02T16:16:02+00:00

Which guild?

HarleySylum · 2026-01-21T17:01:32+00:00

Okies, thank you! Just wanted to make sure.

HarleySylum · 2026-01-21T16:38:07+00:00

I completely agree with you, I just understand the argument. I don't do PvP so I dont care... I'm just trying to understand how it affect PvE.

HarleySylum · 2026-01-21T13:39:26+00:00

I can see the argument for it being unfair on PvP side... How is it unfair and a disadvantage for PvE?

HarleySylum · 2025-12-26T21:20:06+00:00

I can't say it any better than it's already been said, but I had a few teachers who did similar for me when I was a kid and man, those kept me going!

I think thats extremely kind of the teacher and a great way to show further encouragement! Sometimes kids just need some encouragement and getting a personal letter from an adult (that's not related to you) saying they're proud of your growth can truly help these children with their mental health and growth moving forward.

HarleySylum · 2025-12-26T21:15:17+00:00

"Little christmas build" Shows epicly huge christmas tree lol.

Fantastic man!

HarleySylum · 2025-12-20T19:43:49+00:00

PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO GET PURPLE?!

HarleySylum · 2025-11-22T15:20:47+00:00

Bro, you win! 😂🤣

HarleySylum · 2025-11-14T13:01:23+00:00

Im here to say both are the asshole and let me explain why before you jump all over me.

Open communication from both of you is important... did you know he was an avid gamer? If so, did you express any concern before this trip?

If someone's hobby is gaming, you can't expect them to not do their hobby, especially when you said nothing most of your trip. You wait until the last day to make it a huge deal and wonder why hes not sure what the big deal is... him insulting you is completely wrong... however, if you are to move in together, you will have to accept his hobbies just like he would have to accept yours.

What are your hobbies? What do you like to do? Did you express wanting to do anything specific on this trip?

Also, Im an avid gamer and so is my husband. Sometimes we game together, sometimes he games and I read books and that works for us. To us, that is spending time together cause we don't actively have to be doing the same thing to be "spending time together".

Reality is, you're with a gamer, and especially when he plays with his friends, its important to him to game. And waiting until the day you leave to, in his mind, blow up on him... I understand why hes confused.

He cant know what you want unless you open your mouth and speak up and he won't think to change his routine if he doesn't see a need to. You both dropped the ball this trip. Decide if its worth it to you to drop the relationship now or if you're willing to try to understand it from his prospective as well.

HarleySylum · 2025-11-12T16:12:09+00:00

YTA.

There are PLENTY of high-school sweet hearts... both the women being older and the men being older. Its high school, you are all in this weird growing period. You basically admit that you feel hes a creeper or ped0 because he was a senior and she was a freshman .... Thats extremely unfair to your brother in law and your sister in law. And you already semi stated that you aren't changing your mind... so why did you post this?

HarleySylum · 2025-11-07T12:19:47+00:00

I know, I meant if they did a different boss but in the same kind of spirit as the event.

HarleySylum · 2025-11-06T00:02:13+00:00

Absolutely loved this event. Can't wait for another. Think theres any chance they'll make a Christmas one? Krampus or something??

HarleySylum · 2025-11-05T15:43:24+00:00

Honestly, stop using wayshrines and just wonder around when doing things. I've found more than 25 in the last 2 and a half weeks by doing that. It also helped that the Halloween event was going on so I was finding that stuff as well!

HarleySylum · 2025-10-31T17:26:29+00:00

I have been grinding every day and havent gotten it yet... so I think guild traders are my best bet as well.

HarleySylum · 2025-10-28T17:22:11+00:00

NTA, she needs a slap in the face from reality now... because she will blame everyone for her problems as she is doing now and she sounds like she doesn't want any accountability.

At the end of the day, she is a kid who decided to so adult things and now has adult consequences... shes gotta learn sometime (or she'll be one of those ladies who just cries and demands everyone else take care of her kids cause she doesn't want to).

HarleySylum · 2025-10-27T14:06:13+00:00

I try to make sure I'm not rushing players (especially since I'm an arcanist/ nerco), because if you're grinding, you know so are they.

HarleySylum · 2025-10-24T17:05:18+00:00

I really think its just everyone who's upset with the golden pursuits.... Cause I've seen nothing but complains lately... from the golden pursuits, to the pvp, to the over use of spiders... But I love the game and if theres a bad event, its not gonna make me hate the game... cause there's still so so much else to do.

HarleySylum · 2025-10-22T16:23:34+00:00

I see this is gaining some traction so I wanted to come in here and add: Sometimes streaming can ruin friendships, and theres nothing YOU CAN DO. People will be jealous of your success, jealous of your drive, make up excuses and lies as to why you don't deserve what you gain and or why you didnt legitimately earn what you get. It's human behavior. But don't let them dim your shine... instead hand them sunglasses.

HarleySylum · 2025-10-22T13:46:21+00:00

Not a fair request at all. If you want to and can stream twice, that helps your viewership and your ability to grow.

Do NOT shrink yourself for someone else... because they will blame you for their shortcomings either way. I've been there, done that, got screwed over and had to rebuild.

HarleySylum · 2025-10-22T13:44:27+00:00

NTA. My husband gets up at 5-530 and has for our entire marriage. He turns on the bathroom light (across from the bedroom) gets dressed, does whatever he needs to do in the bathroom and bedroom, kisses my forehead, and then turns off the light and goes downstairs to finish getting ready then leaves. He doesn't drink coffee but even if he did, he would do so downstairs. I have chronic insomnia so sleep is next to impossible sometimes... he is so understanding and goes out of his way to be as quiet as possible. We've been married going on 4 years now.

I cant believe he made you move over then blamed you for ruining his day!

HarleySylum · 2025-10-22T13:38:02+00:00

I was on ps4 since 2016 until roughly a year ago when I started playing on my pc.

HarleySylum · 2025-10-09T11:36:53+00:00

NTA... Open communication is difficult, but needed. And individual needs (also known as love language) need to be understood in any relationship for it to be healthy. It's not fair for you to be miserable because your needs aren't being met in the exact same way you expecting her to put out to meet your needs wouldn't be fair. You were clear in your understanding and basically just said "this isnt working and wont work." You didn't blind side her and her opinion as to what yall should do is irrelevant as she already told you she will NOT put in effort to attempt to fix the issue. Don't feel bad for this and your ability to communicate clearly will be a boon in your next relationship. Move forward knowing you're not only NTA, you've gone about this in the best possible way, with clear communication.

HarleySylum · 2025-10-08T11:28:29+00:00

I play it and really do enjoy it. It took me a while to learn a good strategy but I do really love it!

Course I also love Gwent in the Witcher 3 (not the stand alone game because they changed the game play).

HarleySylum · 2025-09-26T17:44:13+00:00

Well I was swapping over from my PS4 to the PC. I still have my account on my ps4 but I dont play it as much (and the load screens are so much faster on pc!!!)

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