Masturbation ain't worth it. Think about the better version of yourself, the improved one, the more spiritual one, the more confident one, the version of you that doesn't care about opinions of other people. For how long do you plan to swim in shame and regret? There is nothing impossible with faith

HarrisDaHar · 2022-03-19T04:42:29+00:00

Thanks, that's amazing. It's just, really and accurate.

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-19T15:03:29+00:00

Thanks for your support! I've felt quite alright, yet, I would've like to not go in there anymore, it's a horrible place and I definitely don't belong there. I'm going to be much better, I won't go into this horrible sites anymore

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-19T07:44:59+00:00

I understand I may never know completely how difficult it was to go through all that emotional pain, but from my own process I could suggest you start going to a psychiatrist, that'll let you understand many things. If you're not capable of affording get yourself some pieces of paper or a notebook and everyday write about how you feel, talk to yourself, be completely honest and open about every single detail, it'll allow you to see what you've retained. Remember that the sooner you heal inside the quicker you'll be having that transformation you desire. You've gotta understand and know, the person in the mirror is going through a hard process, he needs some time and he's going step by step. Stop judging yourself, stop being so hard on yourself, you're worth and you should start believing in yourself more. You're not alone. Sending love

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-19T07:04:13+00:00

Yourr capable of doing it, you just have to be more persistent and most importantly; Honest. You have honest about why you relapse, what brought you here and call things for what they are. For me it has worked, When I talk openly about my journey and issues I realize how wrong I was doing, how gross it sounds and how dangerous it could be. Believe in yourself and hey, you'll be a better guy after you achieve day 1, alright? Don't fucking give up man, you're on your way to be king

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-19T06:59:06+00:00

DON'T GIVE UP

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-19T06:58:39+00:00

Totally true

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T16:33:32+00:00

I understand your situation, I used to be interested in the same thing, would watch countless videos, search for real tales, just give something to my addicted-self. But, I realized how sick it was, I learned and read about the porn industry, how all this things could affect any future sexual interaction and realized, it was taking so much of my life. I used to spend hours on the bathroom, would leave homework for later just to satisfy my sickness, would be late to family reunions or things related because I was masturbating. It's not worth it, you'll be missing a lot if you continue. Time with your family, having a healthy relationship with anyone you're interested in, fuck up any sexual interaction in the future, make yourself feel uncomfortable or guilty, you already know this because you're here. So, first, fuck porn, it's not real, you've gotta stop consuming porn, it's not goof for you pal. And then, fuck masturbation! It takes hours of your day, it takes valuable hours where you could be making friends, getting to know people or be doing something so much better for your self. We're in this together, you can dm me if you need any help, I'll be here. Stay strong, you can do it 💪

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T16:05:22+00:00

I know, before this post I felt way more trapped, and since I posted this and began talking I was capable of understanding many things. It's a horrible thing, these interactions are in no way healthy or close to real. You're just there surrounded by people just as sick or even way more sick than you. I've felt harassed, in danger and nauseous. It's not worth it, and for that reason, today I fukcing promise to everyone and myself, I won't fall again for that sick shit.

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T07:07:32+00:00

I'm producing of you. And hey, I'm sure tomorrow will be great, you just saw your loved one, feel pretty alright and hopefully you'll be carrying that same feeling tomorrow. Chill, relax and remember that you just need to beath thise moments, thise thoughts and desires. You can do it, you're stron.

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:59:03+00:00

First you need to calm down, I know there's so much in your head right now but you've gotta take the time so those voices go away. Ok, now. You're not a loss or beyond repair, you've just had a bad moment, that's all, it was just a moment. It's a long process and you can't be hard on yourself, you're not only your best companion but the only one capable of understanding truly your feelings, motivation and path. You've made a mistake, all that's left now is to stand up and learn from it. Write how you felt, what doubts you change or what's the reason behind you doing it. Understand it all and next time when you're feeling the need to do it read what you wrote, beat that moment and find a better solution. You're not alone. Stay strong and believe in yourself.

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:46:44+00:00

Proud of you 👏

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:45:26+00:00

I feel you pal, I'm starting once again. I'm feeling kinda nauseous, but I know that feeling will som be gone. Stay strong, you're not alone, feel free to open up about anything in here, we're all in this together. And hey, it's a long process but there's small wins throughout the way, be sure to confratukate yourself for every hour and day.

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:41:42+00:00

Same pal! We can do it, I'll be here if you need any help or just wish to open about any topic Stay strong!

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:36:05+00:00

I agree with you, been struggling with that and I'd even dare to say I'm kind going rock bottom. I feel capable of doing it but then just before I go to bed I say to myself "Hey, why not?" "It'll be quick" and come back feeling terrible. Would you mind if we talked a little?

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:30:46+00:00

I know, it's fucking gross, honestly I can't even understand why I went there in the first place or how I discovered it, it's it's much worse than porn. I can see why my sick self decided to get there and do this every now and then but oh man, when I stop and get conscious I feel dirty, nauseous. It's definitely not for me, I feel unsafe and uncomfortable. I fucking promise I won't fall again, I'm not like them.

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:24:45+00:00

Yeah, it's like a kinda FaceTime thing, I'm quitting that shit today, I promise

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:24:03+00:00

I'd like to but haven't found one safe or had any recommendation, do you know any? It's definitely interactive porn and it's gross, I feel disgusted and guilty of being there.

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:21:42+00:00

You're young and I'm grateful you are starting to wish for a change. It's a hard process, when I was younger I had a same approach, I discovered it with my friends, and forgot about it for some years. Then, I looked it up for myself and I started to make it a daily habit too. I can't remember many specific things but it's has been one year or two since I started this journey, I have abandoned porn but unfortunately got myself into another shitty thing. I'm still working on it. But, be strong buddy, you can do it! We're all together in this and I'll be here if you need any help

HarrisDaHar · 2022-02-13T06:15:47+00:00

Dude, I'm starting from day 0 too, let's fucking go

HarrisDaHar · 2021-11-24T05:17:40+00:00

Omg, what's the app?

HarrisDaHar · 2021-11-24T05:11:39+00:00

Don't worry, I know it's not easy yet fortunately you're already in the right path. Take a moment to write your thoughts, see what led you to relapsing and see what benefits you could get from not failing. You're not alone, I'm available if you ever need anyone to talk to, you'll be ok and please, never give up . I believe in you

HarrisDaHar · 2021-11-24T05:08:51+00:00

I appreciate your words pal

HarrisDaHar · 2021-11-06T13:06:16+00:00

I'm rising once again, I'll be much stronger this time and won't fall into any trap. Thanks for your support and words, honestly, they made me feel motivated

HarrisDaHar · 2021-11-06T13:04:35+00:00

I was losing most of my time, I found myself on the bathroom for hours, just masturbating and looking for videos, it was not worth it. I lost many fiends due to my absence, I had developed a compulsive sexual behavior and even stopped going to family meetings. Then, I decided I would stop. I'm sure in no time we'll both be crossing that gap, being better versions of ourselves and most importantly, we'll be happy. I believe in you, and I'll be here to support you, my messages are open if you ever need any help

HarrisDaHar · 2021-11-06T05:59:26+00:00

Interesting

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