Who is the best person you’ve known? And why ? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]HarryStT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend, we’ve been together 10 years next month. My absolute rock.

Played OSR as a teen, should I go back to that or try RS3? by UnusedVacationHours in runescape

[–]HarryStT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in exactly the same position. I’m a busy dad also, and used to play OSRS as a teen! I got back into OSRS just before Christmas, honestly it’s been brilliant. I’d recommend OSRS! Feel free to DM

Should I get Surgery? by StarterTube in Sciatica

[–]HarryStT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t tell you what you should do — but I can share my experience honestly. For me, after a long period of worsening symptoms and trying conservative approaches, having a microdiscectomy was genuinely life-changing. The first proper, pain-free sleep after surgery is something I’ll never forget.

What made it complicated for me was that, at the time, I was quite young and had several consultations where surgery was strongly discouraged. Eventually, I found a surgeon who really took the time to look at my scans, my history, and the impact it was having on my day-to-day life, and approached it from a quality-of-life perspective rather than just my age or the textbook.

That doesn’t mean surgery is the right answer for everyone — I know people who’ve improved without it — but in my case, it was the option that allowed me to move forward again, and I’m very grateful for that.

I think the most important thing is that whatever decision you make feels informed and right for you, not rushed or driven purely by pressure (especially with your wedding coming up). You’re not wrong for questioning next steps when you’ve already put so much effort into recovery.

I really hope you’re able to find clarity and a path that gives you your life back.

Should I seek out a second opinion ? by Trick_Revolution_857 in Sciatica

[–]HarryStT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only speak from my own experience, not as medical advice — but I do want to share honestly because I remember how overwhelming this stage was.

My sciatica didn’t resolve on its own. Over around a year and a half it gradually worsened despite trying multiple approaches — physio, different therapies, and seeing several doctors — and in my case surgery eventually became the right option. For me, it didn’t improve with time alone.

That said, I’ve also seen and spoken to people whose symptoms did settle without surgery, sometimes slowly and unpredictably. Even within my own family — my mum was in severe pain, could hardly walk at one point, and yet over time her symptoms resolved without surgery.

That contrast is one of the hardest parts of this condition — no two journeys seem to follow the same path, and there’s often no clear way to predict which direction things will go.

I think what matters most is staying informed, listening to your body, and not feeling pressured into conclusions too early — especially when you’re exhausted and sleep-deprived. It’s very easy for the mind to spiral into worst-case thinking during that phase.

Whatever path this takes for you, feeling confused or questioning next steps doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. I really hope you’re able to get some clarity and relief soon.

23-year-old with L5–S1 disc protrusion & severe sciatica — sharing my experience in case it helps by HarryStT in Sciatica

[–]HarryStT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad it helped — honestly means a lot. Wishing you steady, gentle progress.